#sanzuphobe

[solitairians]

i also saw someone talk about how fandoms becoming more toxic (this was specifically wrt kpop) can be attributed to covid bc during quarantine so many "normies" (their words) became part of fandom spaces without having learned the rules of fandom meaning a huge influx of people who no longer followed the rules + a lot of people who were never geeks/nerds and shit and dont know what it's like to be an outsider and foster a small community with other outsiders

yes that was the tweet i was referring to! i thought they were really excellent points i definitely have experienced what they were talking about, and the connection to covid makes so much sense

[ritualslaughter]

dabi????

he's still in my heart, just not in my url 😔💜

[solitairians]

re: the post abt old pictures, in my family my grandfather's genes are rlly rlly strong so all of us basically have his face, and one time someone sent a childhood picture of him in the family chat and i swear he looked just like if you put my younger cousin in 1950's clothing

same for us! my mom looks exactly like her grandma and i look exactly like my mom. i only have seen pictures of my great grandma later in life but my grandma claims that in the pictures we have of her when she was younger, we look exactly alike the same way my mom does. out of all my (bio) cousins, only one of them doesn't look recognisably like her (though i def look closest). shoutout to my great grandma's genes

[solitairians]

i was just on tinder and i found my tattoo artist . what do i do .

smash

[solitairians]

ik heb dit jaar oliebollen seizoen gemist vanwege mn exchange . heartbreaking . devastating . 4834 injured 500 dead

wtf dat is echt onmenselijk.... veel sterkte in deze ongetwijfeld erg zware periode

[solitairians]

low effort meal: cook rice (i use rice cooker bc lazy), get can of black beans, put into pot and cook with aromatics of ur choice (little garlic and onion, can also use garlic/onion powder for less effort, bay leave), can cook for literally however long u want, fry piece of bone in skin on chicken thigh (spiced obviously). more low effort meal: just do the black bean thing and eat a shit ton of black beans

alternative: fry small pieces of ham (or other protein), add veggie of ur choice (i like to use peas and spring beans), add egg, stir fry, add left over rice, stir fry, add soy sauce, bam now u have fried rice . if u use shrimp u have shrimp fried rice .

more alternative: take rice and any kind of vegetable and also any kind of pre-cooked protein, put into pot/rice cooker, add spices/aromatics, cook, eat. rice absorbs water and while the rice is cooking the vegetables get steamed. u can literally get like rotisserie chicken or smth for this

genius. thank you

[solitairians]

happy borth!!! i think i started following u when u were 14 so that is what you will always be in my mind <3

horrifying! thank you <3

[solitairians]

show the paella

this is the only pic i have unfortunately. this was before the paella fully absorbed the moisture and also before I added 2 tomatoes and almost 400g of peas. but you can see how big the pan is and by the end it was so full I couldn't really mix in the peas anymore. if I'm doing the math right I made at least several kilos of paella. no one is allowed to ask me why I made paella in a wok