sarrabuggg replied to your post: “.”:
names are stupid and hard and i had a lot of feels when i did the name change thing bc like i had my birthname forever and it felt weird to change and sorry if this is weird to be saying bc we don't talk but yeah
yeah ive had problems w/ names because im attached to my birthname and it has a gender neutral variant butttt people still assume my birthname and call me it??? and i kind of just want to disconnect from my birthname entirely
(ps its not weird haha its comforting to know other people has/have had name troubles and im pretty open about trans* things on the internet)
fuckyesfreedom replied to your post: “.”:
Names are important for individuality, a quality that we in the West GREATLY appreciate. You could change your name to something that isn't quite a name? Thats what I did.
thats true. and actually thats a pretty good idea!! i feel like names that arent necessarily names tend to be more gender neutral anyway