#sauv

[pontsalin]

depends on the delusion ! believing you are like. c!tommy or something is overall harmless - reality checking someone for that causes unnecessary stress - delusions are often a subconscious coping mechanism anyways

I can't speak for everyone, so this is about people with psychosis only, but like even believing you're a fictional character can be harmful

[thesephotoswillspeaktoyou]

Pileated woodpecker -Grand pic by franstonge

[superbnature]

Barred owl- Chouette rayée by franstonge http://ift.tt/2hq0FrR

[pontsalin]

Wait i think i appear in the tags again lemme test

[pontsalin]

C'est toi le tommy français. Ou alors tu l'imagine être français. Confusion

Did you just kin assign me Tommy

[pontsalin]

If it makes you feel any better I have no idea what rpf, mcyt, mcsmp, etc. etc. are and am just tired of epithets in not only fanfiction, but published fiction.

Mcyt fans and normal people can unite in their hate for epithets

[pontsalin]

I totally agree with the whole gender envy = hot being the case for a lot of people, because as a trans person who has such a weird experience with my own gender, I usually can only describe my gender as non-human or even just general concepts.

It really feels like fans heard the term and instead of using it for its actual meaning of “I am envious of how you are able to express your/this specific gender in ways I am not allowed or am incapable of for various reasons” instead of “I find you attractive but in a way I can’t describe without feeling weird so I’ll just claim it’s a gender thing.” Like I have gender envy for Ranboo the same way I have gender envy for the other male theatre kids at my high school, which is I wish I could present masculine the same way they can, but it really feels like everyone else is just complementing him in a way that they feel won’t make them sound weird.

And I know that’s not always the case, and that there are people who do use the term properly but there’s such a loud percentage that use the wrong term that it just always rubs me the wrong way.

^^^^^^^

'gender envy' in this fandom is just another way to call skinny white boy with fluffy hair hot

[pontsalin]

Hey sol just a quick question uhm EHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON WITH FRENCH TOMMY have you- HAVE YOU FINALLY SNAPPED (affectionate, albeit super confused)

Well hello to you too Kena

And in short, yes, yes I did