anonymous asked: How out are you? To strangers? To your friends? To your family?
“Darling, I’ve never been in.”
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anonymous asked: How out are you? To strangers? To your friends? To your family?
“Darling, I’ve never been in.”
Is there a subcategory you identify with? Butch, Femme, etc?
“It’s going to sound flippant when I say this - which it honestly isn’t - but it rather depends on my mood of the moment. Which, I suppose, is to say, that I don’t actually identify at all with any one particular subcategory.
I mean, as anyone who knows me can attest to, if had to sort myself into a box, it would likely be Femme over classically Butch - I like my pretty clothes, and my jewellery, and being fussed over, far too much to ever want to do without them - but I know myself, and I could never really be happy or comfortable being relegated to any single idea or definition.
Why bother? I prefer to simply be myself.”
alessafalling asked: What’s your favourite part of Pride?
“All of it, love. Absolutely everything. I mean, there’s a joyousness to Pride - the world over - that just can’t be replicated in anything else.
Plus, as a vain attention-seeking exhibitionist, Pride rather ticks all those boxes too.”
ianncardero asked: How often do you get tired of The Straights?
“Endlessly.”
“In all seriousness though, Soapberry is such a lovely diverse place that that sort of provincial thinking and heteronormative mire isn’t something that I really have to deal with on a regular basis anymore. Unless, of course, one is venturing into the Outworld - in which case, ‘endlessly’ once again becomes the answer.”