I’m convinced the majority of the leveling up/ spoiled gf & hustle community is just talking out of their ass. They’ll make every excuse possible to get out of working for what they want.
They give themselves away as not actually being part of the community fairly quickly. It shows up with their unreasonable requests and demands they make to wealthy men. As if they can act the way they do and score a multimillionaire. Laughable.
They want the aesthetic, the glamour, with none of the time and effort.
It’s odd. And I honestly don’t know if they actually want what they’re projecting? I’m talking more specifically about the tiktokkers who go viral after spreading their “tips” to the masses. Is it just the “popularity” and attention they want, or do they actually want to social climb, because in all honesty, the two are basically opposed, unless you’re already in a career where the general public’s attention is a given. Especially on platforms where showing your face is basically the only way to get attention.
It’s more worrying because girls are going to get hurt listening to flaky “gurus” who don’t actually have any real answers. Telling girls they should actively accept someone else’s control of their lives, not telling them about the legal protections they may need to take, not preparing, or at least acknowledging, the way people will take aim at your self esteem and self worth; and no cutesy captions or tweets about how you’re the best will save you if you haven’t already built yourself up to have impenetrable self confidence. They’ll swear there’s no nuance in the way you’re viewed, no matter your race, ethnicity, or body type. They’ll swear “Prince Charming” is a multimillionaire or billionaire with no flaws, and is always ready to serve you no matter what.
Girls venture into these worlds with eyes full of false promises and blinders on to what it actually entails, because they’ve believed people who don’t actually want to be a part of it, they actually just wanted some quick attention and to be seen as superior.
