No One
"Be a fighter." I was always encouraged to remain composed and to avoid getting into violent confrontations, which may have contributed to my tragic experience. I often used the term "Learn to fight" in my essays and speeches, but I never imagined that I would also need to put it into practice.
A few days ago, on November 22, 2022, my institution had an international conference, for which I had to arrive at 9:00 a.m. I departed on my scooter early because my companion and I decided to head together. The engine was already difficult for me to start, so I decided to get it serviced on the way home. Near Dakbunglow Chouraha, where my friend was supposed to be waiting for me but was a little late, I halted the scooter and turned off the ignition. Even though it was still early (8:00), the streets were peaceful; yet, few shops and petrol stations were open. I didn't notice when an elderly man attempted to sit in the backseat of my scooty. When I confronted him, he retreated, but he continued to advance and retreat while yelling insults like "Does your dad know what you're doing?" "Don't touch me," "Do you even have any respect," and numerous other statements that I am unable to list. I held the helmet in an effort to smack him if he tried to do anything since it was so terrifying and my engine wasn’t starting. The thing that struck me the most was that two adult males on the shop behind me were idly observing everything. I understood they would have prepared a video to garner likes and views but wouldn't bother to help someone. No one even raised their voice once. I yelled at the old man, and he walked away. I couldn’t even think properly, I was scared.
People might say, "It happens, maybe the man was mad, don't worry about it," but I can't. If this is disregarded, nobody will ever speak out against assault of any kind. Just speak up, if necessary, don't tolerate, ignore, or forget, I wanted to say to the other people. I'm not suggesting we start fighting, but at the very least, provide security. You must help yourself since no one else will.