someone (and by someone I mean my aunt, that bitch.) actually had the fucking nerve to tell my mom that she deserved being cheated on by my dad because she didn't have enough sex with him.
My mom who loves my dad dearly but is ASEXUAL (and to be more specific, heteroromantic) and honestly only ever had sex with him for two reasons: because she wanted to make him happy, and because she wanted children, was told that being cheated on was HER FAULT. And that if she wanted to save her marriage she should just "shut up and put out."
I am so beyond fucking PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW. I AM RAGING.
My mom who for the longest time thought something was WRONG with her, and thought that she would be "permanently frigid", who cried when I told her about asexuality and the fact that she was totally normal. My mom who doesn't deserve any of the shit thats happened to her was LAUGHED AT and DISMISSED when she talked about her asexuality. When she mentioned that sex wasn't the most important thing in a relationship for her, they (cause by this point his other brothers and sisters had joined the conversation) scoffed and rolled their eyes.
"You'll never find a person who will put up with that" (yeah they fucking said that, insinuating that she shouldn't even think about leaving my dad)
"You're lucky he only cheated on you and didn't leave you" (THEY HONEST TO GOD SAID THIS. THEY ARE SCUM)
"Suck it up and have more sex with him, how will he be content otherwise?" (I AM SO FUCKING APPALLED)
I'm so beyond disgusted right now, i'm seething. all of that is complete bullshit. ITS BULLSHIT. My dad fucking knew better, my dad is the one who fucked up. And sure they have problems, and they fight, but NO ONE DESERVES to be cheated on, and especially for such a heinous reason like the one given to my mom.
they are fucking dead to me, they are toxic horrible people that I am officially cutting out of my life. They don't get to talk like that to my mom, and then act like they did nothing wrong. fuck them. fuck them all.