#screenscratch

[astro-inthestars]

vu zi

vuzi indeed

[asexualadvice]

I'm interested in achieving sex, but I never overly enjoy it. I’ve never even orgasmed, even while masturbating. I like being affectionate and touching, and otherwise romantic. Sex is a goal because I’ve learned to treat it like one based on social norms, & maybe partially because I was rejected in past situations repeatedly and it gave me a complex lol. But the point is that I’m never really excited about it, it’s just something I do as part of life and proving affection?? Is this asexuality??

Asexuality is about not experiencing sexual attraction- it doesn't have anything to do with one's behaviours. There are some asexuals who do have sex and who even enjoy having sex. It's really hard to define sexual attraction, though- the way I like to describe it is as having a direction for one's attraction: seeing someone and thinking- I want to have sex with *that person.* It sounds more like you're saying you want to have sex in general, rather than because a particular person is sexually attractive to you. If asexuality feels like a comfortable label for you, you can absolutely use it~

I would recommend reading this link on possible signs of asexuality, though. Sometimes reading about a topic can help. :)

-Southie

[local-cutie]

Introduce yourself!!!

ugh i'm so shy irl!! and he always has headphones so i'd actually have to like make eye contact or get his attention somehow and i'm just so shy lol :'(