Would you tell?
We are going to adopt, it's a long process and it raises some issues as far as self esteem and self worth goes, after all no-one likes to tell people that they are not 100%, that they are not able to father, or mother a child. The idea of adoption, it's a wonderful concept and we are both happy with the notion, looking positively ahead to it, I just wish it didn't have to take so long! 2-3 YEARS at least!
The question is, then, do we tell people? Would you? How much of your personal life should you let the wider circle of friends know? It's so hard to judge... I'm at a loss really...










