#self focused

[badnesssolis]

[ophelia-network]

It is in the capacity to love, that is to SEE, that the liberation of the soul from fantasy consists. The freedom which is a proper human goal is the freedom from fantasy, that is the realism of compassion. What I have called fantasy, the proliferation of blinding self-centered aims and images, is itself a powerful system of energy, and most of what is often called 'will' or 'willing' belongs to this system. What counteracts the system is attention to reality inspired by, consisting of, love. Iris Murdoch

A Twist Of Fate by Craig LaRotonda

[silly-mf-goose]

Dammit i scared him off talking about a dead guy

[thetoddpratt]

In my house by myself. Focused on tasks that I didn't know I had to get done: swept the living room, washing my covers/blankets and sheets and whatever other clothes I forgot to wash, FINALLY got around washing my tye dye socks I got last summer and really focusing on me.

I was supposed to go to the movies with my mom today but I was up until 6:15 a.m. (because when I take late afternoon naps or sleep in until 10 a.m. or so, I stay up later than needed. Weird I know.) SO I watched the Blackhawks/Bruins NHL outdoor series in my Sharks onesie in the living room. It's been a super nice day in.

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[earlgreycrybabyvirgo]

Thoughts

Bust your ass at your job every day, do it for you. Don’t look for appreciation. You don’t need a pat on the back for everything you do. Just do it and know you did it and that should be enough. Stop looking for people to give you gratification and validation for your hard work. Work hard for you, and nobody else. It's part of growing up

[shyimdal-der-waldlaeufer]

I feel bad that I’m depressed right now. 

There are people out there who losed family and friends friday night. How can I be so down and focused on my self?

[mollipopss-blog]

i’m learning to become more self focused.

i was doing a really good job and then i went up north with some people and it kind of fell apart.

i need to be able to tell people what’s going on within me and not care what they will think. I’m going to be okay with my body and how i look every day.

i’m going to push anguish and negativity out of my life. and i need to be able to fill the void of wanting someone with my own being, my own value, and my own decisions.

its okay to make decisions based on what you want, who you want, and where you want to go.

i need to keep these promises to myself.