#selfshipfeelings

[blackdragon-selfships]

romantic dinners at fancy restaurants or take out dinners on the couch?, playing with each others’ hair or giving each other back massages? And! love at first sight or slow burn? 💜💜💜 {@selfshipfeelings}

Thank you so much, @selfshipfeelings! 💖

7. romantic dinners at fancy restaurants or take out dinners on the couch?

Takeout on the couch for sure. lol He knows I’m iffy about eating in public, especially fancy foods, and eating in on the couch means cuddles while we watch a movie or TV show together. ☺️

9. playing with each others’ hair or giving each other back massages?

Playing with each others’ hair. It’s something he does often when we’re laying together or cuddling on the couch, and when I do it he gets very relaxed. A memorable time was when his head was on my lap and I was playing with his hair. He had his arms around my waist and at some point nuzzled into my stomach as he moved closer (careful with the horns) during. lol He is absolutely a cat. XD

17. love at first sight or slow burn?

Slow burn, definitely, when it comes to accepting the feelings we have for each other and then actually wanting to try a relationship. It took us both a while to trust each other, let alone realize we have feelings and then learning they were reciprocated. And I’m glad we took it slow too. Not only because of safety concerns given his history...but I guess savoring each experience and being sure it is what it is.

this or that self ship asks

[nerdstreak]

Eucalyptus: What songs are played at you and your F/O’s wedding?, Water lily: Do you or your F/O cry at your wedding? And!! Daffodil: What do you and your F/O’s wedding rings look like? 💕💕💕 Also congrats on getting married!! You two seem so cute together and the art you've posted is beautiful 🥺💕 {selfshipfeelings}

thank you so much!

well i walked down the aisle to the classic pachelbel’s canon in d major, and as for the reception we play a nice mix of upbeat dance music and gentle slow songs!

i almost cried bc of his vows, and after the ceremony i blubbered a bit all “omg we’re marrieeeeeed i cant believe it!!”

and here’s our rings! we kept the engagement rings as our wedding rings as well bc we didnt see much of a point of two different sets of rings, one pair symbolizes our love well enough anyway!

[a-damsel-in-love]

coconut mango: what mementos do you and your F/O treasure? And! matcha: what kind of gifts does your F/O give you? Are they always buying you little presents or do they invest only in larger items for birthdays or holidays? For N! {selfshipfeelings}

Since I ship my Pokemon BW/BW2 OC Audrey with N, I’m gonna answer for those two!!

Coconut Mango: What mementos do you and your F/O treasure?

I like to think that N keeps this sweet love letter that Audrey gave to him for the first time (she was the first to express her feelings). They have something special and I imagine the letter would mean a lot to him, especially since he’s not so used to being close to many people. As for Audrey, she likes to keep gifts he’s given to her before, like jewelry! They mean the world to her because they’re gifts that came from the heart.

Matcha: What kind of gifts does your F/O give you? Are they always buying you little presents or do they invest only in larger items for birthdays or holidays?

I have a feeling N would give Audrey cute little gifts!! I’ve always imagined he’d give her things like flowers or maybe jewelry. There might be times where he’d want to give her something bigger, though Idk what he would give her exactly. 

[poetryandnightmaress]

card: did you make each other cards or buy them? And hearts: is there anything really sappy your f/o does? For Trevor as well ^.^ {selfshipfeelings}

@selfshipfeelings

ok, Trevor's turn owo (And to celebrate the Season 3 trailer of Castlevania, take this gif)

(Gosh I'm flustered again- Anyways)

Date: In fact, this is Trevor's and my first valentine. We just met last year and became a couple so ye!

Candlelit: He's sick of the comments of others about him or me (I mean, he doesn't care about the hate for him, but when they insult me...o boi), so he loves to spent valentines day indoors with me, so nobody can ruin it for us.

Roses: We don't gift each others flowers, except when I make a flower crown for Trevor again. BUT he loves to gift me stuff demons have left behind! Like necklaces or gold!

Card: We both made one for each other, but mine went missing thanks to the storm in our country and his...well, let me just say he's a legendary vampire slayer, but he can't do anything related to art- I still love this dork and his card with my heart-

Hearts: Trevor, when he was drunk, tried once to climb up our desk and sing "Bring me to life" for me. He had his fun, and I was flustered while he acted so sappy singing this song, I felt like I was in a disney movie. Of course, he didn't remember a single thing on the next day-

[blackdragon-selfships]

🎃 - Does your ship carve pumpkins and if you do, what does it look like?, 🍫 - What candy is your ships or F/Os favorite? And!!🍿 - What is your and your F/Os favorite Halloween or scary movie? {Selfshipfeelings}

Thanks for the ask, @selfshipfeelings! 💖

🎃 - Does your ship carve pumpkins and if you do, what does it look like?

Well...I tried anyway. :P

(I have tried several times to make a dragon carving, but I have a hard time keeping a good shape because I cut the wrong lines. lol)

🍫 - What candy is your ships or F/Os favorite?

Aary loves anything with chocolate, but he’s found he liked Kitkats best of the selections. When I asked why, he smirked and broke it apart, giving me one.

“Because it’s one that can be shared~”

I stared for a minute, then snorted and nudged him.

“That’s not the full reason.”

“No, that is true.” He chuckled, biting into his. “The wafer adds a nice balanced taste too.”

“Uhuh, that’s what I thought.” I smirked, putting my own in my mouth. Only for him to grab my chin (gently) and lift it so I’m looking at him. He then bit the other end, stealing most of mine. Pretty sure I was going pass out I blushed so hard, as he pulled away.

“And I can do that~” He finished with a satisfied (if not smug) smirk. I didn’t have a retort...

🍿 - What is your and your F/Os favorite Halloween or scary movie?

Answered here, but we also may watch Halloween specials or themed gameplays too. lol

Halloween Emoji Themed Asks

[blackdragon-selfships]

5. What’s your go to way of waking them up in the morning?, 6. What’s their go to way to wake you? And!! 13. When they first wake up are they grumpy or cheerful? For Aaravos 💜 (@selfshipfeelings)

Thanks, @selfshipfeelings! 💖

5. What’s your go to way of waking them up in the morning?

Hm...well it depends on a few things. Position, for one. lol I usually wake up with him laying on me (at least his upper half, anyway) which makes it hard to get up anyway...especially when he’s ALREADY AWAKE but keeping me pinned on purpose! XP

I found a good way to get him up though, scratch the area at the base of his horns...and if he still won’t get up even if I use it to bribe him, lightly but firmly tugging on one gets his attention. But if all else fails, I just have to use my frustration-driven adrenaline to get out from under him. lol

(Don’t even get me started on the struggle when I have to BE somewhere... > >)

Oh! But actually, sometimes I wake up and he isn’t on me. So I like to crawl on top of him and wake him up with... *ahem* kisses. To the face and neck and stuff... lol He likes those wake-ups a lot~ 💚

6. What’s their go to way to wake you?

When he wants to wake me up, sometimes he’s nice about it. Stroking my hair, kisses to the cheek and neck...if he’s really playful, a nip on the ear. lol

Sometime he likes to be a jerk, though, and coats his hand in ice and stuffs it under my shirt from behind (so it touches my back) and I wake up with a jolt because cold! (Though to be fair, I stick my cold hands and feet on him sometimes too...so maybe that’s just payback. > >)

Though there are rare occasions he seems like he’s going to go for a kiss or nip, then blows air in my ear. XP (basically he’s very creative about how to wake me, but usually it’s because he can’t get back to sleep and he’s bored. So he thinks I should be up too... > >)

13. When they first wake up are they grumpy or cheerful?

Answered here, already, but let me add to it. lol

How much sleep we’ve had and the weather effect his mood too. Sometimes he stays up later than me (reading...I cannot get him away from a book he is really invested in except through extreme measures...) so if he’s woken up early he isn’t in the best mood.

He also wakes up in a bad mood if he’s hot and sweaty because summer here is like that. Putting up his hair helps, but the vent in our room is busted...so it’s unpleasant anyway in the mornings.

Sleepy Selfship Asks

[blackdragon-selfships]

Sweetstack: Ever considered going on a date in an ice-cream parlor? And! Pixie Petal: Thoughts on making flower crowns for each other? 💜💜 {Selfshipfeelings}

Thank you again, @selfshipfeelings! 💖

Self-Ship Asks - Keyblades: Chain of Questions

Sweetstack: Ever considered going on a date in an ice-cream parlor?

No. Never again.

Kidding. lol He had a good time. Got chocolate obviously, but apparently that wasn’t enough for him. 😤

Pixie Petal: Thoughts on making flower crowns for each other?

We’ve humored the idea...and he’s tried teaching me how to do it. It’s actually pretty easy and fun, but this was the start.

[blackdragon-selfships]

🖊 If your F/O were to start a collection of things, what would they horde? What would be their most prized possession? (Besides you, obviously) And!!! 👀 You and your F/O got separated in a crowd in a store! How do you find them? Or do they find you first?

Thanks for the asks @selfshipfeelings! 💖

Self ship asks/prompts I came up with at 5 AM

🖊 If your F/O were to start a collection of things, what would they horde? What would be their most prized possession? (Besides you, obviously)

Well he already collects books, and has a small collection of jewelry he kept that has sentimental value...but yeah, books. He collects books, reading all of them at least once and rereading his favorites. His absolute favorite is one with a collection of poems and old stories from Xadia he collected over the years. Writing some of them down, others he received that way.

He’ll read that one when he’s upset or homesick...and sometimes he’ll read them to me out loud, since I can’t read most of the writing because it’s in different languages.

👀 You and your F/O got separated in a crowd in a store! How do you find them? Or do they find you first?

Well option one...caterpillar phone. Option two, just look for the tallest patron there, or the only non-human in some cases (though no one else knows this sometimes. lol)

If the caterpillar isn’t with us, he’ll sometimes scry for me somewhere private...or go to the front and have the person there make the public announcement through the loudspeaker like I’m a kid. I hate when he does that, so he does it more just to annoy me. > >