selvaria bles nsfw headcanons
pairing: selvaria bles x gn!reader
tags: smut/suggestive, switch!selvaria, selfsacrificing switch to healthy balance of pleasure, equal balance in pleasure, fluff
selvaria is a switch and she's mostly concerned about her partner's pleasure instead of her own!
she's open to everything and just wants to please you, almost letting you do anything you want with her!
however, despite how things between the two of you might start off, selvaria does actually have her own preferences and needs that she just struggles to voice
she convinces herself that she just wants to make you feel good, while neglecting herself. but with each time the two of you have sex, she realizes that she wants more
when it comes to intimacy, selvaria is hesitant to voice her own needs, especially because she never got the opportunity to experiment and doesn't know what exactly she wants
all of her prior partners simply used her for their own pleasure, so she doesn't know how to start experimenting or put herself first!
selvaria might slowly try out new things either by herself or without talking with you about it. though if you voice discomfort, she stops immediately!
it takes a while for her to learn to have that conversation about her own needs and wants, but once she finally can voice those, she grows a little more confident
selvaria still cares about your pleasure, but she doesn't put it above her own anymore! if anything, she believes that if you care about her, then you should care about her pleasure equally to your own!