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Chamomile- I tend to group gifts into to big categories:
Useful: Honestly, for me this is clothes, shoes, books, makeup, and tattoo supplies- a lot of basics that I go through a lot of, and all the clothing, because, well, I'm STILL trying to build a wardrobe back up since coming out, doesn't help that I'm still very much mid-shift and trying to figure out what styles I like. But yeah, why I keep Amazon and Etsy wishlists updated and public.
Emotional: Flowers. I am such a sucker for roses, they've always been my fave- in all sorts of colors, though I prefer the dark reds and other intense ones. I'd say more living plants, but I'm out of space and light in here for them. Plushies and stuffies. Music given with the intent of letting me understand you as a person better. Poetry (absolutely doesn't have to be written to me in particular). (Yes, there are absolutely times when I'm such a stereotype when I look at that list.)
Gifts I never want: unmarked/anonymous stuff. Don't cultivate the air of mystery with me, I wanna know who sent it, and I get easily creeped by stuff where I don't.
A full day of just being able to get out and do stuff without having to wear Mom hat or Business hat or Worried Trans Woman Hat. I wanna go to parks, and shop, and eat out and see friends just as me and relax, and I haven't had that yet at all.
So help me I also want Pike street to be part of that one somehow, since I haven't been in YEARS.