i don’t know why people are so allergic to the idea of disabled doms and tops. god forbid a chronically ill person likes to have their needs considered and attended to by a supportive partner, but prefers be the one taking care of them in the bedroom.
disabled people aren’t submissive by default. we’re allowed to have sex, and we’re allowed play active roles. fandoms assuming a certain dynamic based exclusively on a character’s disability is the quickest way to turn me off of a ship







