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“It's insensitive to say top surgery is mutilation because that hurts cis women who had cancer” why the fuck does it have to hurt cis women for people to actually give a shit about the transphobia that Tmen & Tmascs face. Oh my lord. It's insensitive to call top surgery mutilation point fucking blank!
You guys do realize I'm a person, right? You realize I've gone back and read the original post over a dozen times trying to figure out what I did wrong? I could have worded things slightly less strongly, but I stand by my point and I do not think that my words deserved the reaction I am getting. I am trying my best to deal with this as maturely as possible. Please do the same and stop sending me hate.
So I'm not really sure if anyone is gonna see this or really care, but I'm going to be taking a break from writing, Ao3, Tumblr, and Discord for a bit. Probably. Or my obviously-spectacular self control is going to fuck up again. But I haven't really been in the best place lately, and I'm taking some time to talk with a therapist and also just kinda focus on my work and my family/friends and such. ... so yeah. Not really sure what I hoped to accomplish by writing this, but I'm going to post it anyways. Hope you enjoyed your weekly vent (vent? Idk what this is) from your local-not-really-local Undertale trash.
"trans men don't have a need for community that's why they go stealth!" extremely incorrect buzzer.
Just because a trans man or transmac goes stealth doesn't mean they don't need community. There's a lot of different reasons people go stealth. Safety is a big part of it, some people just don't want people to know they are trans and that's perfectly a-ok. I'd even say the fact Tmen & Tmascs cant find community within the LGBTQ+ is more of a death sentence. We shouldn't have to feel bad for being ourselves. tmasc & Tmen aren't misogynistic for transitioning either. So cut that out
What I find really odd is how no one ever thinks or mentions trans men with the abortion conversation. "Men shouldn't have a say" a little fun fact I still have a uterus and still can get pregnant 🦭 that doesn't go away just because I'm transitioning. Getting that removed costs thousands and thousands of dollars. I'm not saying make them the Main focus, what I'm saying is don't yell at them when we mention we are affected too.
Why is rape jokes against trans men so normalized
"Trans mutated- oops sorry I meant transmasc"
This line boiled with so much fucking rage. Why are we calling anyone a "mutation". The creator goes off to say they were being a bad person. I personally don't care if they are the scum of the earth to refer to transmasc people as defective or something wrong and gross is so odd ESPECIALLY when your first topic was about the infighting of the community.
If you are Cisgender I DO NOT want to hear you talk about how trans people do and don't pass. You don't get to tell trans people that they can't pass due to:
- being alternative
- dressing feminine
- having a non traditional hyper masculine name.
(I'm speaking on the trans man stuff bc I'm a trans man, trans ladies feel free to share your experiences!)
Ect. STOP GETTING INTO TRANS PEOPLE BUSINESS! your voice isn't louder than ours when it comes to our own issues. Yes GNC/non passing trans people are aware! People usually don't get mad.
