I have a problem.
the first step is to admit it. i have a problem.
shifting felt like an escape to me, which i know, #1 problem, bad mindset, i get it. but sometimes, shifting felt like the only way to be happy, the only way to live a good life, the only way to get love, etc etc. and maybe that’s true.
but the point of this post isn’t to make you feel even worse about shifting and about your life right now.
i want you to take care of yourself.
this life is just as real as every other life you’ll ever have. each of you have feelings, wants, needs, and you need to tend to those.
if your like me and always said. “i won’t do this, because im gonna shift anyways.” i want you to keep reading.
your life in ANY reality means so much. In this one, or your favorite DR, you mean so much. just because one life is better than the other doesn’t mean the other doesn’t deserve your own love.
so please, this life matters, put effort in.
if you feel this life is pointless but your DR gives you purpose, i understand, but make a point.
if no one loves you in this reality, i do. and i don’t mean that in the way of a famous person telling their fans “omg i love you alll~” i mean it truly. if no one else will give you love you can find it in me, or in this community.
this life means just as much as your DR life, treat it as such.
“i’m not gonna do this, im gonna shift anyways,”
“i hate my life, i need to shift.”
“i NEED to shift.”
i understand, i really do. i think everyone in this community understands. but, it’s also important to understand no life is easy. even your DR, it’s not gonna be easy. (unless your DR is like a constant loop of you in a bed watching reels but idk.) so while your here, treat yourself, try to make it through, because i promise you it’ll make it easier to shift. don’t rely on it, flow into it.
