#shipper antics

[cherryfocus]

That fan who said they shared a hotel room is lying for attention. She didn't even stay with him while they were filming in London and he had a house and she posted pictures from her hotel room. Shippers always excuse this by saying "they get a hotel room but stay with the other", like okay sure...right...I know they have money that they could do that but what would be the point? Hotels don't disclose that info and the company paying for it could care less if they want the room provided or not.

If we’d go by that shipper’s logic I would actually lowkey hate them a bit. Like here we have thousands of people in the world not having enough money to afford a room above their head. But somehow it’s okay in their minds to pay for hotel rooms they wouldn’t even use. Just for the sake of keeping their relationship private? smh. 

And like if they wanted to spend time together in the same room, why the hell do they choose to stay in a hotel room together in Venice while she could have just stayed at his house. People would have never found out. Because paparazzi in Europe is like actually respectable and don’t follow them around in cars or wait at their houses. It makes no sense, no sense at all. 

[cherryfocus]

The other thing I hate is when people say they must be dating because they are both attractive and being single would be impossible. Like, no, many attractive people are single (Hiddleston, Haz, Charlize, Demi, Rihanna, Leo, Harry Styles, etc.). This is the dumbest logic when they say “why wouldn’t they date?” Well who knows? There are so many factors in finding a partner, it could be anything (the distance alone!).

It’s an absolutely ridiculous statement imo. Especially since I believe Z has said she wanted to focus on herself after breaking up with Trevor Jackson. And they broke up in 2016, not too long before starting to film Spider-Man. She has said herself that it was a bad break-up and there is no way (since we know Trevor cheated on Zendaya) she would get into another relationship that quickly. Just because someone is attractive means there is an attraction. There are all kinds of factors when it comes to a relationship. And just because you get along well, doesn’t mean you want to date that person or are suited for each other. 

As for the distance part. Shippers often like to use the fact that Zendaya said she’d be willing to be in a long distance relationship on her app as proof. But long distance is something different than a completely different time zone. Not to mention that Darnell didn’t believe a long distance relationship would work and if Z at the time (as shippers believe) was in a long distance relationship with Tom, Darnell would probably believe it could work.

[cherryfocus]

Love your blog! One thing that really bothers me about the crazy shippers is that every time there is "tea", as they call it, they start saying things like "We always win!" Like, no! What did you win?!?! It's so sick how some of them view this as a game when it's two real life people. I grant you Tom and Daya may seem larger than life since they are celebs but they are very much real and to view their lives as a game (dating or not) and refer to it as such is beyond sickening.

Aww, thank you ♥ 

Looking at it like this, yeah, it is pretty freaky. Especially since most of the ‘content or proof’ they get is incomplete and up for further imagination or there is nothing romantic about it at all, imo. So they really didn’t win anything, they just think and really believe they did, but they didn’t. They’re just getting content of them hanging out and use all that to harass them with and broadcast it across social media to make other people believe it. Without actually knowing if it is really true, which they so wholeheartedly believe, it’s getting creepy. Your whole comment is basically why you shouldn’t ship real life people in the first place. It isn’t right and they think sometimes Z actually posts stuff for them (being thrown a bone as they refer it as). Z couldn’t give less of a f*ck about giving content.

[cherryfocus]

I think shippers tend to over analyze and conclude things about Tom’s behavior when he talks to zendaya or is talking about zendaya (the interview as an example) but in reality he acts the same way with every other friend he has. This mannerisms and facial expressions are pretty much the same. He doesn’t act any different and so it’s truly hard to believe that he and her have anything more than a solid friendship.

Especially when you look at the way Zendaya acted with her last boyfriend Trevor. How she actually walked red carpets with Trevor and posed with him for those carpets. And for the rest just general stuff. A lot of shippers only look at their interactions and pretty much ignore how they act with other people. And with Tomdaya blogs than only focusing on these interactions. They’re not really getting a clear picture in my opinion. But yeah, he definitely acts the same. I would even go a step further and say he acts a bit differently with his guy friends. Like how he goes and greets Jacob with a handshake on the Homecoming press conference and the comic con panel in Arizona. And than there was this one time in Paris, where he just greets Zendaya with a ‘hey, how are you’ in Paris when she joined the press event.

[cherryfocus]

I'm so tired of the excuse shippers give that some fan asked T if the shipping was okay and he said he's okay with it. Like, what do you expect the guy to say? He's not going to alienate his fanbase at the beginning of his career by saying "no, it's weird, stop it." Z has given the shippers two big middle fingers now with tweeting "not a secret, just not your business", and her recent Vogue 73 questions where she said she's tired of being asked about dating but shippers can't deal with that...

Tom’s exact words were it’s fine :p. It’s fine aka idgaf, I ignore you guys most of the time. But yeah, they’re definitely not going to say anything negative, for these are still his fans. And that’s not like Tom at all, to say anything about it in the first place.

And wait, did Z actually tweet that? Because that is like a pretty big thing. Her dating her last boyfriend Trevor was no secret at all either. We saw them being intimate in public and they went to events together a lot, even walking the carpet together! Even a backstage pic of Zendaya posing with Trevor, and they were hugging each other. Z just never outwardly stated this was her boyfriend. Which is how you keep the world guessing and not put attention on it. Also dating in secret must be toxic the way shippers say Zendaya and Tom are doing. It’s so not healthy to not show any affection and have to refrain from it in public.

Exactly, stop asking her. It doesn’t have anything to do with her career for God’s sake!!! If Zendaya has a boyfriend, you’ll know like we did with Trevor Jackson.

[cherryfocus]

That shippers blog you talk about is so delusional it’s scary. Dedicating her time and energy to this “blog” where she then blocks, and ignores all of those who don’t agree with her, it’s ridiculous.

She definitely spends a lot of time on that blog. Which I don’t think is the healthiest thing to do, especially because the blog is about two real living people, who’s lives don’t have any effect on hers. Aside from her being obsessed about wanting them to be together. Don’t mistake my words though, it’s completely fine to have a blog like this (I mean, I have the same king of blog here, just in a different perspective). I just don’t think it should be a daily thing, if you have this. You are allowed to ship people, and say why you think they aren’t together. Just don’t make your life resolve around it. 

As for her blocking the people who don’t agree. Like I said before, that’s her choice and a very legitimate one. She doesn’t have to answer the non-believers if she doesn’t want to. She just shouldn’t be talking about them than if she decides to ignore them in the first place. Because than she isn’t really ignoring them.

[cherryfocus]

People saying they can tell they are dating from their body language just see what they want to see, a great example is the “the whole cast hates Brie” situation people were making videos about Don cheadle his body language saying he was uncomfortable with her but on Twitter Don called people who made those videos clowns and defended Brie so he was not uncomfortable at all but people wanted him to be. Same thing: they want them to be dating so they see them looking dreamy at each other

Lmao, I remember that. That was so hilarious. And yes, it is complete proof that it’s just suggestive. This is some amazing tea, thank you ♥

[cherryfocus]

The other thing people recently freaked about was him spending time with Z on the set of Euphoria at 5 am. Firstly, we have no idea when he got there or how long he stayed, second he flew out that day and since he’d have to readjust to London time, it would be early afternoon there, he was probably trying to adjust to time (this is a well known combat to jet lag) and he had a long flight ahead of him that he likely wanted to just sleep through and Jacob was likely back home already.

A funny thing about that is that Tom was still wearing the same clothes in his story when he left Los Angeles that same day. Only that was 10 hours after he was spotted on her set. So it’s not like Tom immediately left after Z was done shooting. Yet they couldn’t spend time after she was done? Tom obviously didn’t go to sleep after that. Yet Z did, judging by her Mother’s Day story she posted later in the afternoon. So, they went probably went separate ways after she was done shooting. But why would you choose to hang out with each other on set? Z is one of the leading roles in Euphoria, so it’s not like they’d be able to hang out a bunch. Makes you wonder why he was there? Especially since he also posted a story of him being with Luxury Law that day or the previous day. And so if he decided to stay up throughout the night so he could get used to London time quickly, and still had to meet up with Law (his stylist) before he could leave, and we have no idea when he arrived on set, how do we know he just not decided to stay and hang out? 

Tom also surfed Instagram for a while before he had to board his plane. Than on the plane he decides to take a 2 week break from Instagram. Not coming on very much at all, which is what probably what he meant. So my guess, since shippers were already posting about that sighting on the Euphoria set, is he wanted to take that break to not see all the bullshit they tagged his name with. He also posted that story of Luxury Law after deciding to take a break and having surfed on Instagram, suggesting he might have subtly made this story to proof as to why he was on the Euphoria set in the first place. But that’s just my theory! I don’t know if any of this is true. Just like we all don’t have any clue why he was on set that day at 5AM.