The shmanners community be like: "Excuse me if the question has been asked but... what do you think of *insert an extremely awesome gift idea* for *event such and such*? Would it be well received?" Or "I want to *give card to, make a freezable meal for, provide service for* this *grieving, ill, in crisis* person I don't know too well. Would it seem pushy?" And I'm like, y'aaaaaall why so nice?!












