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In September of 2016 I was looking at my relaxed pixie cut ,and I wasn’t happy… I grabbed a pair of scissors and clippers and began to cut ,and after looking in the mirror I just knew I had fucked up… When I saw what I had done , I was mortified and sad… I then decided to make a wig to mask this mistake I had made… And everything was good for those few weeks until I began to get tired of wearing the wig and decided I was going to show the world my “big chop”… I decided I was going to embrace my hair… I decided I was going to turn this mistake into a journey … My natural hair journey… But first I had to make a quick trip to my local beauty supply store for hair dye. I had this idea that dying my hair would make everything better… I guess we could call it a security blanket… I went from basic, boring black hair to that reddish/ orangish color pictured above… And then I let the world see it… It was so nerve wrecking at first ,but it ended up not being all that bad… You have people that love it and you have people that hate it! #OHFUCKINGWELL Almost 4 months later… My hair is back black, I still get called a little boy ,and I’m not approached by many guys like when I have my long Brazilian wig on but that’s okay. After many tears and a period of broken confidence…I love my hair , love , love , love it. And it has taught me to love myself, and I’ve developed this confidence… A confidence wayyyyyy different than the confidence I had before…A mindset like “Yes bitchesssss , I may not have long hair like the next chick , but I’m still that bitttttt! Ayeeeeeeee”. I felt soooo empowered, but please understand that you don’t need validation from anybody especially a nigga. I don’t care if you think I look better with long hair or I shouldn’t have cut my hair. I don’t give a fuck about what you have to say! I want a nigga who is going to love me with or without hair… And I’m not going to lie… There are some days where I don’t feel attractive , and wish my hair was longer, and that guys found me attractive. But , I believe it’s just apart of being a girl. I just have to remind myself of who tf I am and that I’m beautiful… And say for instance when you do feel like that call up one of your homegirls for a day/night out, beat your face, put on a bomb ass outfit, make sure your curls are poppin, post some cute pics on sc & ig…And just slay your life away! Moral of the story to all my girls who have cut their hair or are considering cutting their hair… Embrace it girl , Ignore the ignorant jokes/remarks, because at the end of the day it’s your life and you live for your happiness and not others. Your opinion is the only opinion that matters… You’re poppin , you’re beautiful, and you’re that bitch! Ayeeeeeeeee! ❤️