#shrinkingwomen

[foreverlurk]

As a giant cishet male, it's not the first time I've been called sexist under the M/f content I post. A large part of what I enjoy in this dynamic is fluffy, but as a lover of non/dubcon shrinking, this is an example of the "lightest" sort of comment I've received. I would share the worst if they weren't against the TOS of most platforms.

Essentially, I was told that I was hiding behind "it's just a fantasy", that I was enabling misogyny, and that people like me were the reason others in the size community were looked upon as freaks from the outside. The saddest part is that those comments came from people within the community, not random normies who happened to find my content.

I know my IRL behaviours and thoughts are NOT defined by my kink. The women I engage with in this sort of scenarios have all given me consensual non-consent (CNC) and I respect their boundaries. It requires a lot of trust and respect from both parties.

Still… I wish I could say these comments don't affect me, because they don't even know who I am, or what my beliefs and values are, but that would be a lie. When people ask me, "Lurk, why have you never shared with anyone your fantasy? Why haven't you told partners in your life about it?". This is one of the reasons why.

[foreverlurk]

Teasing is my love language, and is there anything better in life than teasing a shrunken woman?!

Or, you know, gaslighting her 🤭

Sure, they'll squeak in anger, but who are they going to turn to when they realise how dangerous the world can be at their new size?

You guessed it! Her giant shrinker protector (who's technicality only giant now because he shrank her, but I digress)

That's... why I'm here 🫡

[foreverlurk]

A friend sent me this Omegaverse test recently (she's a tiny Submissive Omega), and I'll admit I know next to nothing about the lore but the test was kinda funny, if a bit long. Still, the results are related to how I see myself as a capital G in the G/t dynamic. I got "Soft Alpha", which if we ignore some of the meme text is pretty spot-on. I do want to please, and ultimately soft/passive domming is what I like.

This also relates to how I've often felt out of place in the size community regarding my own preferences. Just being into M/f is already niche, but I'm in this weird space where I'm too much of a softie for those SW who enjoy hardcore NSFW, and not fluffy enough for the SFW tinies (in no small part due to my penchant for noncon shrinking).

I don't see domination as needing a lot of cruelty or extreme behaviour, the beautiful thing with size is that it's not needed at all. I'm already sooo much bigger than you, that fact alone establishes the basis of our relationship. My favourites methods of reminding her of that simple truth are: teasing, gaslighting, and fear play, in that order. I love making tinies blush! Even if I'm in a protective role, and a caring giant, it's important to tease and remind her about how ridiculously tiny she is.

For the most stubborn SW, shrinking them again is usually as far as I'll go. A little trip down smaller than an ant usually helps her understand who's in charge 🥰

[foreverlurk]

If anyone is curious, I gave a short interview last week on Solomon G's There She Grows, talking a bit about where I'm coming from and my various size archiving activities in the G/t and Micro/Macro community: Interview with Lurk, Size Archivist and Shrunken & Tiny Women Enjoyer

Wanted to include a short bit about the origin of my current pfp, but I ran of out of time. If you're curious you could ask @the-littlest-lily for details, I'm sure she remembers 🤭

[foreverlurk]

Stumbled upon a short movie from Mexico called "Chiquititita", coming out in 2026. Why would this movie catch my attention? Take a wild guess...

"Nina is a painter who dreams of showcasing her work. After deception and negativity in both her career and in her personal life, her confidence crumbles, causing her to shrink more and more. Literally." They have an Instagram page with some behind the scenes footage and pictures. Look really well done for an indie movie, with props and practical effects.

I love the premise and I sincerely hope this is easier to find than other sizey shorts I've been searching for years, with very limited success (like "Withering Heights", "Belittled", and the more recent "Girlzilla").

[foreverlurk]

I know nothing about Tears of Themis or who those characters are, but this is some very cute G/t. I know that look, I have the same one when I stare at a cute tiny lady.

Reaching for that head pat with his finger, while she gives his nose a booping.

Help me, I'm being ratatouilled!

These are all so cute 🫠

[foreverlurk]

The Miniature Wife full trailer dropped this morning and I'm losing my mind. Look at how tiny and adorable she is!

I would find any excuses to keep her like this, and not restore her to normal size.

April 9th can't come soon enough!

[foreverlurk]

I just want you to know that your last post made my tiny little heart race so fast to the point where I could even hear my heart beat. You write so beautifully and I am aching for more of your thoughts. It’s so nice to read from a perspective of a giant man who enjoys the masculine/feminine dynamic in GT/SW relationships. I sincerely hope you consider writing some NSFW stories that focus on a consensual relationship between a tiny/shrunken woman and a giant man who explore the endless possibilities of their size dynamic. It really is a beautiful thing

I'm glad you enjoyed it! As you know, M/f is already quite niche compared to other gender/size dynamics, and I feel that the consensual, loving side is even more lacking in representation. It's something I love to explore in writing, as I've been daydreaming about it almost all my life. As for writing full NSFW stories, I don't have concrete plans at the moment, but I left many projects in various state of progress over the years. My largest one is in French, my native language, and while the focus isn't NSFW per se, there are some parts. But it's deeply personal, and I'm not sure if I wrote it for anyone but myself. Sighs. You are right, it's a beautiful thing indeed.