ok but being a wlw is especially difficult because of all the internalized homophobia that has taken me years to recognize? like why can't i comment heart eyes on a friend's selfie without being paranoid of coming off as creepy or flirty? why can't i talk to girls casually without having to police my every word just to make sure that they don't get the wrong idea? like i crave normal platonic relationships with the girls i know but also being attracted to girls always makes that so much more difficult than it needs to be.















