i would just like to know....
Well…
Actually… I believe you can judge someone from their past, because even though they might have changed from that time, NOW they still probably came to terms with and thought to themselves “Will I regret this later?” “Is this the right choice?” “What will be the consequences?” “Will doing or saying this hurt someone?” “Will it hurt me in the long run?” All of which they most likely knew the answer to but, they still were selfish enough to do it because of their own needs even knowing bad things that could come of it. You’re not your past but, honestly people just say stuff like: “You can’t judge me from my past” say that because they knew that in their past they really f#cked up and don’t want to take all responsibility for it. It’s pretty childish. You can judge someone from their past regardless if they’ve changed or not. I could have slept with every dude in my school and people would call me a slut then a month later be a freaking nun. People are still able to judge you and will continue to judge you from that. And, I don’t mean to sound rude or a b!tch to someone who has a different opinion. But, I’m just stating the truth. It doesn’t matter what people say they WILL judge you from your past, so for the people that say stuff like you can’t are hypocrites because I guarantee they do it themselves. Think about it. It’s unrealistic to think people shouldn’t or wont. I'm just a person who isn't afraid to say or accept it.