It’s Okay to Be Different
Written and illustrated by: Todd Parr
Publish date: April 2009
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company
Summary/About the author: Todd Parr lives in Berkley, California with his three adopted pitbulls. He has created over 40 different children’s books. He has been on the New York Times Bestseller list several different times for his ability to write stories that relate to anyone. Todd created this book with an abundance of color and several types of people. It shows the reader it is okay to be different. Todd Parr has a great website dedicated to all the things he loves; charities, his family life, literacy and showing the world it is okay to be who you are.
Illustrations: The illustrations in this book are much like all other Todd Parr books. Each page is bright. Each page is colorful, it reflects real life people “It is okay to be missing a tooth (or two or three.)” “It is okay to have wheels.” “It is okay to have two moms or two dads.” With each turning page, the illustrations create a safe space for the reader. As I read along, I could see myself or someone I knew in each page without hesitation. I could relate to each character.
Reflection: My reason for choosing this book for my “character with disabilities” theme is because of all the different character described in this book. They are not your typical character, the characters do not conform to “norms” of one stereotype. There are characters with physical differences, disabilities, unusual pets, progressive family lifestyles and even ones who make mistakes. Reading this story to my students with special needs; they are all able to find themselves when reading this book. I know each one of them can make a personal connection to a page in this book. While following Todd Parr on instagram, he made a challenge to his followers; asking them to tag themselves in one of the books he wrote that could be most relative to them. When scrolling through the feed, the majority of the followers chose; It’s Okay to Be Different.
Classroom Application: K-2 grades. When presenting this book to my students, I asked them to listen to the story and find a page they were able to relate to the most. Asking them to recreate the page in their own way. I posed the question, “what if Mr. Parr needed more pages to his book? Let’s create more pages that are different.” My kids loved this. They all made different pages; some included their own disabilities. A few examples included; “It’s okay to have never met your mom.” “It is okay to have glasses.” “It is okay to have a feeding tube.” “It is okay to be black and white at the same time.” All things that made them different but it’s “okay.” As a celebration at the end, we watched the tv show made after the characters from this story and the story line.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdgTetUId3U











