Visitor, marking, warmth, elder, offering please! :)
HI THIS HAS BEEN IN MY MESSAGES FOR WEEKS SO I’M ANSWERING IT NOW BC I SUCK THANK YOU FOR INDULGING ME AND PUTTING UP WITH MY POOR COMMUNICATION SKILLS
VISITOR: what creature visits your dreams most often?
I don’t really have symbolic dreams, they’re usually just sad imitations of reality that could feasibly have happened and make me anxious hahaha. Sometimes there is a doge though!
MARKING: describe your tattoos,or tattoos you would like in the future?
I have absolutely zero interest in tattoos. Never been something that appealed to me in the slightest. But I’m afraid of commitment so it might be related to that. :-P
WARMTH: what do you find most charming in others?
Honestly I am most charmed by others when they display genuine caring for other people, when they’re speaking openly and honestly about themselves, or when they go out of their way to do something specifically for me.
ELDER: what do u expect to be like in your elder years?
I think I answered this before, but I hope to be one of those hilarious, slightly terrifying ladies who had wild, traumatizing stories from her youth. I’d say I’m on the right track for that.
OFFERING: how do you show others you are fond of them?
I’ve run into some trouble with people in the past because I can’t always be physically or emotionally present in ways that I think a lot of people expect from their friends or romantic interests. When I really care for someone, it may not seem like it from the outside, but I do prioritize them in the ways I spend my free time and emotional energy.
Above all else I want the people I care about to feel like they have someone they can talk to, that they’re being really heard and listened to, and that they’re being treated like a full and complete person, and not just someone’s limited idea of them. But I am easily thwarted if I feel like that courtesy isn’t being returned.