I’ve never, ever felt scared or intimidated to talk about being pan, but coming out as poly? Terrifying. Just absolutely fear-inducing. Even some of the most open minded people can and absolutely will mentally persecute you for that kind of thing because everyone has this idea that there’s one “right” kind of relationship, regardless of what kind of person that relationship is with. And... there just isn’t. Relationships have to be a reflection of the people in them. Anyhow, y’all should know that I will probably be talking about more than one romantic partner from now on. It’s unfortunate if this disturbs anyone, or if stereotypes are the first thing that come to mind, but everyone involved is happy and healthy, and openly communicating in a way that ensures it’s a positive experience for all involved. I really like the person I’ve been dating. I don’t want to keep acting like he’s a secret, or like he’s a shameful part of my life, because I’ve never felt more relaxed and comfortable with my romantic situation. He deserves the same attention my first partner has and my first partner isn’t going anywhere either.
