axx do u have any tips for getting over someone? its not romantic but my best friend started uni a couple years ago and since then she's slowly stopped talking to me and i get that it happens but it still hurts because she was the most important person in my life and she doesnt even remember me anymore, and i dont want to keep thinking about her and going through our messages and pics and looking her up on fb but idk how. should i go cold turkey and just delete everything do u think?
honestly i give a lot of advice on here but i don’t really think i have an answer for this im sorry because this is something i still kinda go through with some people i’m not as close to and like.. an issue that i know i give myself a lot of guilt about.
i DO think that looking through your old messages and stuff & what she’s doing now will not help tho. i’ve definitely done that before but you end up just overanalysing things that you can’t change and ur only gonna end up upsetting yourself that way. you don’t have to delete everything but like... let it pass by.
also fwiw i doubt she “doesnt even remember you”, im sure she thinks about your friendship too. but for whatever reason it stopped being the same and that shit hurts. people grow apart, not every bond is lifelong, and i don’t really know how you can deal with the pain that causes.
