#softdomenergy

[azsubgrl1971]

Dinner time always feels like the dividing line between everything I had to do and everything I want to feel. Still stretched out, still unwinding, hoping the night brings something warm, comforting… maybe a little playful too. Tell me how your day really went.

[zoniteillusion-pyritedreams]

Hellooo fren! Can you check what Joshua’s current love energy is like? Wondering what kind of vibe he’s putting out or feeling these days. Appreciate it! Thank you! -🧜🏽‍♀️

"Joshua Hong: Softboy Saint or Secret Sinner?"

aka what Aphrodite really whispered in my ear during this spicy lil tarot pull

Let’s start with this Joshua’s energy in love right now? Complicated. He’s coming off like that quiet, refined boy at church who lowkey knows exactly how hot he is but pretends he doesn’t. On the surface, he’s reserved, polite, composed, but beneath that angelic glow? Baby… Aphrodite said "don’t be fooled.”

Current Love Life?

Leo reversed + Judgment reversed? He’s holding back. Like, really holding back.

He’s thinking about love, but not fully acting on it. There’s a hesitation, maybe from past situations where things got messy (Five of Swords reversed says "we've healed, but we're cautious").

Page of Swords tells us he’s curious, watching, analyzing… maybe even peeping your Insta stories a little too often.

He wants connection (Knight of Cups reversed) but isn't rushing. He’s in a “let me build my kingdom first” phase (Emperor energy), making sure he’s emotionally, financially, and spiritually stacked before offering that cup.

Does he have someone in mind?

Mmm… maybe. But it’s subtle.

Think: fantasizing in private, not sliding into DMs.

He’s romantic in theory (Knight of Swords charging forward with ideas), but IRL? Homeboy overthinks. He’s slow to trust, but once you’re in, you’re in deep (Four of Pentacles = clingy but in a “you’re mine forever” kind of way).

What he looks for in a partner:

Gemini + Queen of Wands? He wants someone smart, sparkly, and a little bit of a showstopper.

Think: brains and beauty, wit and warmth.

He’s turned on by confidence, humor, and a bit of mystery.

But Neptune reversed? No illusions, please. He’s done falling for the fantasy. He wants the real you—messy, dreamy, dark humor and all.

And now… the spicy stuff. What are his kinks?

Queen of Wands + Nine of Wands?

Let’s just say: Joshua might be a service dom in disguise.

Worship kink—he loves to admire you, touch you like art, tell you you’re beautiful (and mean it).

Praise > degradation—he’s not into calling you names, he’s into telling you how good you feel.

Control? Light. But intentional. He’ll tease you by making you wait... but he’ll never cross your lines.

Knight of Pentacles reversed + Emperor? He's about sensual dominance. Slow, steady, calculated. Probably big on eye contact during... you know.

Also… I wouldn’t be surprised if he has a soft spot for lingerie, whispered instructions, and being the one who makes you fall apart with just his words.

The overview:

Joshua in love right now?

Single, reflective, emotionally guarded—but ready for the right one.

He’s romantic, but not naïve. He wants a smart, bold, soft-on-the-inside firecracker who can keep up with his thoughts and melt into his arms.

Behind closed doors?

Think slow hands, deep kisses, and you pinned beneath him while he tells you how pretty you are.

He’s not trying to sleep around. He’s trying to find someone worthy of both his heart and his hidden heat.