#solidtude

[her-ascension]

THANKFUL for this journey, peace & SOLIDtude.

On this journey I’ve learned that peace is not the absence of chaos or foolishness. It’s about how you respond to these instances. To maintain my own peace I have to take quiet moments with myself.

Each day I commit to making sure I’m solid.

The journey continues.

✌🏿&❤️

[tearstreaked-coffeestained]

me: why don't I have any friends?

also me:

*doesn't text back*

*doesn't text first*

*declines most hangout offers*

Still me: hmmmm

[her-ascension]

i dont like people that feel like they gotta one up you all the time.

im chillin. 

be cool. 

[her-ascension]

I give thanks for experience & wisdom.

These days I see things for what it is. And I gladly stay in my lane & proceed to the route.

On this day, I intend to continue to mind my business, broaden my experience & listen to The Wise.

Yall take care.

Peace. Love. Ascension.

[her-ascension]

NOT ANYMORE.

"Is she always this quiet?" adults would always ask my parents. And no matter which parent I was with, the answer would be yes as my young self watched. At one point it made me wonder if something was wrong with me. Obviously I didn't give that too much thought, but it was still something I was always conscious of.

As I've grown, I learned that being quiet is not the issue. There are appropriate times to say nothing. However, in my case, this quiet became a crutch. A default when I'm afraid to share. It became a self-silencing. Avoidance. A very bad habit.

And since I'm in the practice of breaking such habits, I've been committed to speaking my truth. Even when it's uncomfortable. Like writing this very post. But all this growth & development is promising!

[her-ascension]

i've come to realize

anything not love has no place in my realm.

i love LOVE too much.

[her-ascension]

[her-ascension]

it don’t work like that over here, G.