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Planning Your Solo Winter Holidays Now

Ahoy! Very long post ahead. I like talking about holidays, what can I say? Apparently a lot....

I’m writing this at the tail end of August. Normally, I like to do my solo Christmas prep in July but this year I just had too much going on so September it is. 

Part of why I like planning my solo Christmas (and other winter holidays) in advance is because in the weeks actually leading up to them, I quickly get too depressed and unmotivated to do anything. It tends to be a time of particularly high conflict between me and my partner, things become more strained with my family, and friends are much too busy to give their usual support. So I’ve learned over the years to start really early for my personal celebrations. 

The additional benefit is that when I get myself stuff this far in advance, I usually forget what it is so it’s a genuine surprise to open in a few months!

This year, the winter holidays I’m planning solo activities for are: 

Advent

Christmas Eve

Christmas Day

New Year’s Eve

New Year’s Day

Epiphany

In this post I’m going to share what I’m doing in the hopes it gives you some ideas for what you can prep now to make your solo holidays a lot more enjoyable and meaningful. I know not everyone celebrates these so take it as a jumping off point. 

General Holiday Planning

Ideally when I plan a holiday I like it to have these four things: 

Holiday specific food

Spiritual activity

Mundane activity

Treat or present

I also generally like to have good music going, a nice scent (perfume, candle, diffuser, etc), and a nice but comfy outfit on but those tend to be less holiday specific and more preferences for holidays generally. For larger holidays, I like to include decoration. I’d like to do it for more holidays but I’m low on space and natural/found décor takes a fair bit of energy at a time when I have little. 

Advent

Since Advent is less of a singular holiday and more of a preparation period, it breaks my mold a little bit. 

Advent Traditions

An old Advent tradition that I’ve started to incorporate is, similar to Lent, I pick something to give up from the first Sunday of Advent until Christmas. This keeps me mindful the whole season long. Consider getting and lighting an advent wreath every night with dinner or just on Sunday evenings leading up to Christmas, either way. Some folks like to make Christmas puddings on Stir-up Sunday - you could go ahead and make sure you have the recipe and box up any shelf stable supplies so it’s all together. 

Advent Calendars

For Advent calendars, I used to like getting some candy and incorporating it into my personal advent calendar but my food allergies make that hard to navigate at the moment so I’ll probably leave that out personally but it’s fun and you should try it if you’re able. 

If when we can manage it, I like to do a compliment calendar with my partner. We cut up some stiff paper, make/number 25 little cards, and write compliments to each other in in them. When we’ve made them all we usually washi tape them up in the shape of a Christmas tree. One year when my partner was working longer hours, she kept them in a box in her desk at work and would open one each morning. If you don’t have a partner to swap with, ask a friend or family member. Can be done at a distance too. 

For my personal ones, I’ve tried the complimenting myself but it can feel...more odd than enjoyable so I usually pick something else. I’ve made some with quotes - that one really depends on the quotes you select. I tried jokes one year and enjoyed that one. Other ideas for written ones I’ve had are journaling prompts to fill out, fun facts/trivia questions, and paper puzzles like sudokus. 

One idea I might try is putting together one of my big puzzles (1000 piece), breaking it into 25 sections, bagging it up, and then doing each days section throughout December. Consider finding or making your own readalong, whether that’s a the Biblical Christmas Story, Charles Dicken’s A Christmas Story, or your favorite holiday cozy read. 

I wouldn’t worry too much about presentation. Something is better than nothing. Believe me, when you can just pull out a box of Advent goodies come December - you’re going to be glad regardless of how it looks.

Christmas Decorations

One year, I got a very small Christmas tree, decorated the whole thing, and put it back in the box until Christmas. I figured if I wanted to redecorated it come then, it wouldn’t be hard to take everything off and redo it. Come that Advent, I was so thankful I didn’t have to decorate the whole thing from scratch because I didn’t have it in me. 

So my advice is pick a few easy decorations and if you want to do more later, you can do more later. 

Grab a string of Christmas lights you can pin up in the shape of a Christmas tree. Grab some bulldog clips and maybe take a little time to make some origami Christmas ornaments, calligraphy some Christmas words, or collect some Christmas photos you can clip up on it. 

Pre-decorate your tree. Make a wreath from Dollar Tree supplies. Prep a little manger scene or Christmas village. Grab a Christmasy candle for your stove. 

--Whatever would make Christmas a little more fun and real to you, grab or make it now and make sure it’ll be easy and simple to put up come Advent (or whenever you put up your decorations. 

Advent/Christmas Bucket List

It might seem super early to make your winter bucket list but I know me and when the stress is piling up, I need at least one to-do list that’s fun. Bonus if I don’t have to use the executive functioning to make it. I’m always grateful to past me (so long as I kept it reasonable)

What movies would you like to watch?

What activities would you like to do? 

Any foods you’d particularly like to make?

Grab any supplies that won’t go bad before then and put them all together so you can just grab it when you’re ready to mark some items off. If you’d like to send cards but don’t have anyone to send them to or would just like to do a few extra - consider signing up for Letters Against Isolation and sending some seniors a few nice cards. 

Christmas

Christmas Eve

Food: Cookies and cider

Spiritual: Plate some cookies and cider for ancestors + spirits, leave somewhere with note; attend a Christmas Mass with partner if able (virtually these days)

Mundane: Eat cookies, drink cider, listen to Christmas lofi and read a book late into the night

Treat: Buy myself a new book on Kindle

I like to keep Christmas Eve pretty low key. The main prep I like to do here is come up with a list of possible books to buy myself cause if I don’t then I psych myself out and don’t buy one. Ideally I like to bake the cookies and steep the cider myself but if it’s getting close to Christmas and it’s seeming like that might not work out, I buy some cookies instead. Then I’ll microwave my cider and steep a mug for me and a mug for the spirits. 

Christmas Day

Food: Pizza with hot sauce; after years of low energy Christmases, this became our tradition - also in part because I usually put hot sauce in my partner’s stocking. If conflict is high, it’s still easy to make individually. 

Spiritual: Sometimes go to Christmas Day mass with partner, otherwise I try to get a meditation session in. Sometimes I’ll give the ancestors + spirits another round of food. 

Mundane: Go for a run or a hike, complete items from my Christmas bucket list, play solo rpgs and tabletop games - things that keep me off my phone; mini spa day - soak feet, paint nails, do a mask.

Treat: Open presents, if my partner has gotten some for me, we usually open those together but I always make sure to get myself some presents too because well, things happen. 

So the part that I prep now are my presents. I set a budget - this year is around $50 - and grab some things and wrap them. When I had less money, I’d go to the Dollar Tree and fill a stocking for myself with they set out Christmas stuff in like October. Their puzzles aren’t terrible for the money and they’ve really expanded their book and craft section. Consider looking at other bargain stores like Ollie’s and Gabe’s. You can wait until Black Friday deals roll around if you want but I’ve learned I’m usually burnout by then. 

I try to stay off of my phone and away from screens generally on Christmas because it’s too tempting to look on social media and it really really bums me out. I might make an exception to this if I ever get an-isolated-lifeboat discord server set up so I can hang out with fellow solo folks like myself but barring that I’ll likely stick to my screen fast. 

I’m also going to prep by putting in a reminder to prep the pizza stuff a week ahead of time because I can’t prep it this far out and I can’t eat frozen pizzas anymore thanks to my allergies. 

New Years

New Year’s Eve

Food: black eyed peas, greens, and cornbread; sparkling cider

Spiritual: year ahead tarot pulls and astrology forecasts

Mundane: gratitude jar, go through old photos, stay up and watch the countdown, hot tub?

Treat: bouquet of white roses

The gratitude jar is something I’m starting this year and it’s the main thing I’m prepping. For the rest of the year, I’m going to be writing down things I’m grateful for or really pleasant solo memories I made and sticking them in a jar. On New Years Eve, I’ll pull them out and relive them. 

Normally I would also prep stuff for a really nice long bath but my parent’s house has no bathtubs. So that’s out. They have an old hot tub that may or may not be useable then. Failing all that, I’ll at least do a nice long foot soak. 

I’ll be putting in a reminder to get roses a few day before. I usually let them dry and include them in rituals the whole year long.

New Year’s Day

Food: leftovers, I like to make sure I eat it both days

Spiritual: offering to spirits of fate and fortune, house spirits especially

Mundane: go for a walk/hike, work on themes/goals for the new year

Treat: still the bouquet; order my digital astrology 

I’m not sure if anyone else feels this way, but New Year’s Day always felt like a little bit of a let down after New Year’s Eve. I’m still trying to figure out how to make it feel like more of a moment but luckily none of it will require much prep. 

Epiphany

Food: spice cake, Indian or similarly spice forward food

Spiritual: chalk the door (20 + C + M + B + 23), ward the house

Mundane: put away Christmas decorations, write a note that I’ll open next advent when I get the decorations back out

Treat: spice cake

So I didn’t grow up celebrating Epiphany. I was introduced to it by my Catholic partner. It wasn’t big in her family but it was at least more of a thing. I’ve grown to really love it in the years since I began celebrating it. The Three Wise Men where always one of my favorite parts of the original Christmas Story. 

It’s still a pretty low key holiday but I like to bake some spice cake - or barring that buy some spice cookies - and make the blah task of putting decorations away a more festive and meaningful experience. 

Luckily it’s another one that doesn’t require much prep. I already have blessed chalk (well chalk pen), my go to spice cake recipe and box cake mix, and pen and paper.

Conclusion

So this post was really long but when I was first trying to figure out how to do holidays in a more solo oriented way it really took some thinking to come up with traditions that weren’t only fun with other people. I really recommend sticking to things you know you genuinely enjoy doing and not things you only do because it’s a given holiday. I hope this gives you a jumping off point. 

If you do nothing else, grab yourself some holiday treats now and wrap them up. You deserve nice things and future you will thank you!

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