#sometimes it is needed

[falklore]

why is there still no google drive folder with the eras tour movie, we are failing as a fandom

[thevqid]

"you shouldnt kink shame" OR WHAT, some of you bitches are weird asl

[bedroomemo]

big fan of being blunt and firm in the right situations

[britestariknight]

A Revaltion

I saw on FB yesterday that a friend of mine just got dumped from a friend that she was really close with. It was eerily similar to what happened with Sasuke 6 years ago, so I offered her some advise, and I think I made a breakthrough in my own situation.

I now accept that there was nothing more I could have done to change things. It was his decision and I had no control over it. I did everything I could to save that sinking ship.

I also accept that I was not ready to lose him. I was not ready to let go of everything he represented in my life back then and I was afraid of life without him.

I know that I have since grown and changed as a person. I am not the same person he knew. I am better. I have support and love in my life, and even though nobody filled his shoes, I realized that the role he played in my life is not one that I need to be my best self.

For the first time since he came into my life, let me acknowledged that I do not need him to define who I am. I define that for myself.