Can someone please help me get rid of my EX- SD?
So I was seeing this guy for 4 months and wanted to end things because he has a damn STD. (he apparently suddenly found it when he could have been lying the whole time) But he’s an okay guy, not that stingy and gave me a few trips. I just could not live with the risk and got checked 2 times after seeing him to make sure I never caught anything because you can get THE HERPS from the slightest skin contact. It’s safe to say, I do NOT have it. BLESS. Anyways because he has paid for my flight twice he has my name and personal information so I don’t want him to be mad because he can tarnish my name/ruin me so I thought the safest was to play it cool and end it easily. I made a mistake on holding on to him for about 2-3 months after seeing him as I checked the shit out of myself for STDs just in case I already got it. When I realized I was completely clear, I decided to cut strings. and he’s like in love with me so hes been sending texts about how he’s sad and shit. and asking to be friends. He literally keeps texting me even after I told him we were completely done because I met someone else. I don’t want to be like ew u have herpes bye since again he has my name...........Anyways hes been posessively texting me about how I’m a terrible person /my silence is telling/me being disrespectful/hurting him etc cause i didn’t reply to his latest message. TBH I WANT HIM TO DISSAPPEAR but I don’t want to him to start tarnishing my name to anyone who would listen cause he always told me about his horror stories with ex SBs and isn’t afraid to give names. thats literally the ONLY reason I’m even entertaining this. i’m legit scared, someone help!!