Who’s more dominant: Spencer, but every so often Sebastian has a dominant night.Who’s the cuddler: Sebastian, and Spencer is a willing participant.Who’s the big spoon/little spoon: They switch off, but Sebastian usually has his head on Spencer’s chest so he turns into the little spoon most of the time.What’s their favorite non-sexual activity: Sebastian taught Spencer chess so chess… until Spencer starts beating Sebastian.Who uses all the hot water: Spencer and it pisses Sebastian off to no end.Most trivial thing they fight over: Who’s hotter: Andrew Garfield or Dave Franco?Who does most of the cleaning: Spencer. No contest.What has a season pass on their dvr/Who controls the netflix queue: Sebastian, and I’ll explain why in A head canon: part of this.Who calls up the super/landlord when the heat’s not working: Spencer, because Sebastian would just cuss him/her out.Who leaves their stuff around: Sebastian. There are textbooks and work-related papers everywhere, and Spencer wants to organize them and cleanup but Spencer knows Sebastian would lose it.Who remembers to buy the milk: Sebastian, even though he doesn’t drink it almost ever.Who remembers anniversaries: They aren’t too big on anniversaries publicly, but privately they both remember and give each other gifts in bed those nights.Who cooks normally: Spencer, because Sebastian can’t cook to save his life, but they get takeout a lot of the time.How often do they fight: They don’t fight often, but when they do it’s absolute chaos.What do they do when they’re away from each other: They fall asleep with their computers on the other side of the bed, with Skype cameras open.Nicknames for each other: Spencer’s for Sebastian are ‘Bastian and Seb. Sebastian’s for Spencer is just Spence.Who is more likely to pay for dinner: Spencer tries, but Sebastian has mastered giving his card to the waiter/waitress before Spencer has a chance to pull out his wallet.Who steals the covers at night: Spencer. Sebastian tries to steal them back but to no avail so he has to participate in the walk of shame to get another blanket.What would they get each other for gifts: Spencer usually gets a gag gift for Sebastian, and Sebastian usually surprises Spencer with tickets to shows/concerts/events/etc.Who kissed who first: Spencer kissed Sebastian first because he wanted to move on from his breakup with his ex-boyfriend Mason McCarthy.Who made the first move: Sebastian because he saw a sad Spencer at a bar post-McPorter breakup.Who remembers things: They both do, but Spencer remembers family and friends birthdays and anniversaries and makes sure to remind Sebastian.Who started the relationship: They had a one-night stand, and that was supposed to be it for Spencer. Sebastian was supposed to be his rebound sex after his breakup with Mason. Sebastian didn’t do relationships, but couldn’t get Spencer out of his mind when he went to flirt with potential conquests. Sebastian finally tracked Spencer down to the bar they first met in.and kissed him.Who cusses more: Sebastian. Spencer does occasionally, but nothing compared to Sebastian’s sailor mouth.What would they do if the other one was hurt: Sebastian would take it out on the doctor’s and be like “GIVE ME NEWS NOW!” when he just asked the same question less than five minutes ago. Spencer would just be silent and polite and not let anyone see that he was so worried and broken on the inside because his person was hurt and in pain. His friends would ask if he needed anything, and he’d just say “I’m fine. Seb will be okay, you guys.”Who is the dirty talker: Spencer.A head canon: Sebastian has nightmares (about watching his mother attempting suicide but that’s a whole other head canon I have) and doesn’t want to wake Spencer, so he goes out to the living room and catches up on television shows. Spencer has no idea Sebastian has nightmares and goes out and watches television shows. Sebastian will watch new episodes of the shows Spencer and him watch together, but won’t tell him so he’ll just watch the same episode twice.