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[robbiercyes]

spyingromanoff replied to your post: spyingromanoff replied to your post:Yo...

EXACTLY. like i don’t feel like i fit in with lgbtqa+ and i don’t feel like i fit in with straight people either, let alone where i fit in within the ace spectrum to begin with, and it’s rough

i’m sorry i didn’t answer this last night, i went to bed haha

but yeah I mean, I’ve never felt like i was apart of the lgbtqa+ community because I’m not “gay enough”. which is stupid because by being graysexual I should be a part of the community, but because the few instances where i’ve experienced sexual attraction have only been towards men, I feel like it’s easier to fit into the straight community than the other. But at the same time, I’m technically not straight because of how rare it is that I feel sexual attraction, so it’s like I don’t 100% fit in there either.

And to be quite honest, the majority of the time if someone asks about my sexuality, I just say I’m straight because unless you’re on tumblr, chances are you’ve never heard of the term graysexual (let alone asexual). even if i try to explain it some people still might not understand it because there are a lot of misconceptions that surround the ace community (like a lot of people think that if you’re asexual you can’t be sexually aroused/like sex which isn’t true. it’s literally only about whether or not you feel sexual attraction).

idk man. it’s tough, but this is who we are. it is at least nice to know that there’s a reason why i’m like this because when i was going through high school i honestly thought something was wrong with me. knowing more about sexuality gives you some comfort at least.

[robbiercyes]

spyingromanoff replied to your post:You 100% can ignore this if its too personal, but...

i totally feel you. this is pretty much exactly me. i started figuring it out like a year or two ago, and i still don’t know what to label myself exactly :/

i know i mean, it’s hard kind of being in that gray area of sexuality because you just don’t know what you are and that makes you feel pretty shitty. it’s like you don’t fit in anywhere and you’re constantly doubting yourself.

[adampxrris]

spyingromanoff replied to your photo “am i an elf yet”

okay but like yOU'RE TOO PRETTY

um noo you are???? but thank you??

[wonderwcman]

Once you get this you have to say five positive things about yourself, publicly, then send to ten of your favorite followers! c:

aw thanks darling :)

i love my hair

i'm quite good with languages

im v loyal to my close friends

im a good listener (i think)

im v sensitive to other people's feelings

[barackobamas]

Once you get this you have to say five positive things about yourself, publicly, then send to ten of your favorite followers! c:

omg thank you so much :)) FIVE whole things tho jeez okay let's see if i can think of five

my eyebrows are on point like all the time

my eyes are cool too ig?

being tall is alright even tho i complain about it a lot

i can sing relatively well

stellar taste in movies/tv shows/music tbqh

[bhrnes]

Once you get this you have to say five positive things about yourself, publicly, then send to ten of your favorite followers! c:

thank you!!

i did this already here :)

[mummer]

Once you get this you have to say five positive things about yourself, publicly, then send to ten of your favorite followers! c:

gwh <3

i’m a p good writer

i’m passionate abt stuff??

i have cool hair

i’m rly smart yo

i like my eyes? they’re green and almond-y i think

[uhuraisgay]

i got taco bell two days in a row

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