okay, so this has been annoying me so i'm going to rant about it.
okay.
people are complaining way too much about things that don't matter anymore. people also think that they are not the reason for things in their life being horrible. sometimes it's not your fault. BUT you are the only person who can do something about it. this isn't disney, there is no pixie dust to fix it. i use to blame everyone else, make people feel bad, and play the victim when i KNEW that I needed to take control and fix things myself. people are not going to feel sorry for you and just give you constant attention to make you feel better. you need to learn how to fix things yourself. i understand that some things are harder to fix, but that doesn't mean you should never take responsibility for it.
so stop complaining, and do something about it. you're not helping yourself or the people around you by doing that. so fix it.