Minors, do not interact with or view my blog. Everyone else, I ask that you include an indication of your age on your blog if you interact.
I'm changing how this blog works. I have a lovely little community of friends that I'm writing for. Over time, I will post those here as well on an irregular schedule.
If you want to join, I would at least like a decent introduction and a chat that helps me understand you better. Either way, you'll still be able to read the same things on this blog, despite the delay. If you're craving more in the meantime, check out my AO3 (the link is at the bottom of this post).
Shoot me an ask if you think I've made a typo anywhere, please, please, please (forgetting to type crucial words is the bane of my existence) 🙏 pls pls pls, I will be very grateful :D
Asks & DMs
My DMs are shut by default (unless you're a mutual). If you want to DM for whatever reason, shoot me an ask. If we've never spoken, please don't start a conversation with 'Hi Daddy/Dad', it gives me the ick.
Asks are no longer anonymous. If you don't want me to respond to it publicly, feel free to let me know, and I'll respond to it privately. You can shoot requests, your thoughts, confessions, whatever, really. If you're a dick, I'll just block you tbh.
I'm interested in meeting people irl, particularly around London, so if that's you, feel free to hit me up :) I'm also keen on talking to people from around the UK, but if you're not and you're still interested in chatting, don't let that stop you.
Blogs
@stemminglust — a cuckquean-based blog in the format of a diary (which I really need to stop procrastinating on)
@stalkinglust — my 'personal'-ish blog. If you have questions/ things to say that aren't about the things I write here, this is the blog for it.
@dolldefilerbackup — my backup blog, initially made for my first blog, dolldefiler
Tags
I've tagged most of my posts with at least one of the following tags. This is primarily for my own convenience to aid me in uploading things to AO3. You can scroll down to the bottom of this post and click on your desired tag :) These tags work in conjunction with broad content warnings I add to each post. Wouldn't want to traumatise anyone :p
#stemming-cuck — writing featuring a cuckquean/ there are cucky vibes.
#stemming-cheat — writing where either you're cheating on your partner with me or I'm cheating on mine with you (i.e. you're a cuckcake!)
#stemming-deg — writing with degradation of extremely varying degrees (ranges from softer praise-degradation mixes "my pretty, perfect little fleshlight" to piss/ rimjobs/ dykebreaking/ misogyny etc.)
#stemming-praise — writing with lots of praise!! Or just wholesome, cute vibes. Sometimes, I'll also tag posts that contain a large mix of praise and degradation together with this.
#stemming-cnc — writing with cnc and rape kink.
#stemming-inc — writing with lots of icky incest!!
#stemming-ap — writing with ageplay dynamics.
#asks — my asks!!
If anything makes you uncomfortable, block any tags you disagree with or simply block my blog entirely. Do whatever you need to do to put yourself in the best frame of mind.
I am a cishet male but if you require the 'voice' of my posts fit another identity, feel free to mentally refashion my posts. Do whatever you need to get off!!
This is all fiction, and I do not condone the real world equivalents of what I write about (except praise... and consensual degradation... and consensual cuckqueaning... and, like really risk-aware, cnc... Nevermind, this whole condemnation thing isn't really working out. Just be safe and consensual!!)
More of My Work
More of my work can be found on my Archive of Our Own page. This contains posts from any previous blogs, including DollDefiler.
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
Also, if you go on a spam-like spree, the last thing you should do is apologise. I'm happy you find my writing enjoyable :)
(Defunct while anon asks are gone) Emoji Anons:
(sozzles in advance for the notes on your emojis, I struggle to remember people by pictures </3)
i wanna message you so bad about how often i can't stop my fingers from running down my body at the reading of your blog. how i rub myself to all the ideas of you ruining me, my life, humiliating me and making me your personal little broken whore, but also fucking me in front of your girlfriend, telling me how much of a better slut i am than she could be and us humiliating her together...god
Aww, I think I have a good idea I know who this is.
Looking at all the nasty, icky posts you liked, I can tell you need it. You need to be edged and broken into my pathetic, personal little fuckdoll, don't you? I would do it, sweetie. I would strip you of your identity. I would turn you into something less than girl. Just a broken, brainless little bitch that needs her owner to turn her into a toy built solely for his pleasure.
And it's so cute how despite being so utterly worthless, you still want to be other woman. It's cute that you'd want to be less than a fleshlight to me, but still more than my girlfriend. I think it'd be hot. Just turning you into this submissive, disgusting set of holes that does anything I say, no matter how gross, how icky, how utterly fucked up. But then still jerking off to the sight of you slapping and spitting on her face. Telling her that you ride my cock better than she ever could. Telling her that she should clean my cum out of you after I'm done fucking you. After all, you're pathetic.