#stone community

[essiebitssie]

So to the people who keep saying horrible things about pillow princesses, that we're evil for not performing certain sexual act, that we don't care about our partners:

See, this may come as a surprise to you, but people don't owe you sexual act. They don't. You can find someone sexually compatible with you, but even then, you're still not entitled to a certain sexual act. If they bail midway, it is well within their rights to do that.

Yes, even that fem/me that doesn't wanna give in bed. No, she's not being evil or a bitch for not wanting to give. Don't make me go into a tangent how being feminine-presenting often subject us to perform sexual/romantic labor and when it's not fulfilled, we are seen as wicked. Doesn't that sound familiar??

Otherwise, what else would you have them do?? Force themselves to please you?? Do you not see how that looks like?? Do I need to tell you that coercion is not okay??

If THAT is how you treat people with sexual boundaries, you are NOT a safe person to be having sex with.

[queerasiniloveyou]

niche femme positivity post✨💛

hey, shout out to trans femme lesbians who don’t see themself in butch-femme tumblr and who really don’t see themself in nsfw tumblr.

femmes who are trans masc, who do have dysphoria and who do want to have top surgery or take hormones or who want to medically transition in any way. femmes who don’t pass as women in the straight world. femmes that see themself as trans first and femme second, for whom femme is not their gender bc their gender is too complicated to stop there.

stone top femmes. femmes who have sexual dysphoria and don’t want you to touch their chests or their cunts. femmes who are particular about the kind of language you use to talk about their bodies; femmes who don’t like it when you call it a pussy, femmes who will let you touch their chest and their nipples, not their tits, or who don’t like certain pet names. femmes that are not and never will be princesses, or mommy, or ma’am, or do butch-femme dd/lg.

femme’s who sexual fantasies don’t circulate through butch-femme tumblr, who’s stone is not romanticized by stone communities online, or who don’t know what they want because they struggle to find the language for it.

femmes who are all these queer things that the community goes out of its way to validate and normalize, and romanticize and sexualize about butches but does not always remember could be true of femmes. femmes who are all these things and still are not butch. femmes who have tried being butch. femmes who never want to try being butch. femmes who are also butch, or something else entirely.

if you don’t see yourself as a caricature in someone else’s fantasy don’t worry. there are more ways to be and be queer and more ways to be happy and more ways to be loved than will ever be written about.

when i say femme-ininity (femme-infinity) is subversive i mean it. take your queer identity and run with it— as far as you can into wherever it takes you.

✨ terfs, radfems, zionists, etc dni ✨