If you actually believe there are "virtually no" middle aged or elderly gay men left you need to log the fuck off and go to LGBT+ spaces in real life and go talk to them. They have stories they want to tell. They have lessons they want to share. They want to pass on the lives of the friends they knew who are gone, and those who are still with us.
Believing that they're "all gone" because you're in an internet echo chamber where they don't happen to spend their time is erasing their existence.
















