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The whole experience starts with you, really. Over at sweetdream.ai you design her completely, her looks, her personality, her voice, her backstory, the quirks that make her feel like a real presence. Then the chat does the rest, fluid and emotionally intelligent, with photos and even videos of her that genuinely impress. There are human-sounding calls when you want her voice, and live options with select characters when you want more.

I've sampled the alternatives. They're not bad. But for being remembered, for that daily sense of mutual attention, SweetDream is simply the standout AI girlfriend platform right now, and I don't say that lightly.

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10 Adventures in 10 Days with Stray Asia: missing the bus in Chiang Mai (silver lining)

I have finally had a break in my awesome trip around South East Asia on the Stray Asia bus, so am ripping into some blogs. 

When I was caving in Chiang Mai last week I made friends with two climbers from the UK (both living in Hanoi) who were open to having me tag along. This is quite a big deal in climbing circles, they typically don’t really want rookies along as it is a liability and slows experienced climbers down.

I am dead keen to get more into climbing and this sounded excellent to learn from some pros (and to avoid paying full price with the tour company, of around 4000b). Unfortunately, as with my last blog, my taxi could not find the destination in time and so the bus left without me! Serves me right I suppose, but heck, 9 minutes is a bit mean when they knew I was coming.

Ironically missing climbing was actually not a bad thing, as my hands and feet were ripped up from the day prior on the indoor climbing wall (500b for the day, really good value) and to be honest I wanted a day to myself. More to the point, as they say, with every cloud there is a silver lining and in my case it came in the form of an American named Joy. 

We met in the cafe I was sitting in (not far from the Thailand Climbing headquarters) and got chatting straight away. She is a crossfit instructor who essentially lives to travel.. she coaches lifting and training in various destinations and has been to something like 50 different countries already. We decided to make the most of the day we had at our disposal (her, a day off work. Me, no climbing c/o missing the bus) and so hopped aboard her scooter and went cruising around Chang Mai. Tip: for first time visitors to this city arriving on the Stray Asia bus or by any other means, getting a scooter is a great way to see the city. It DOES require some riding experience though, and certainly nerves of steel..

Joy shared some great travel hacks with me including dispelling the myth about Thai food being risky for your belly (her opinion: if everyone is eating it and no-one seems to be getting sick, it is probably ok!). After three months living here she had really sorted out her directions which was lucky for me, as I was totally disoriented. After cruising around some markets trying things like sticky rice with ice cream, Thai sausage, and meat-on-a-stick (we both like high protein / low fat options so she showed me how that is possible without getting sick) we decided to check out a place called the Chiang Mai Grand Canyon she had seen trending on Instagram. Next tip: you can find out about a lot of ‘off the beaten track’ adventures by searching Instagram.

Now this was a totally awesome thing to do and I cannot recommend it enough! You wont yet find it on many tourist books or brochures as it is relatively new and has only just been ‘commercialised’ after being a secret spot for locals for a long time. Getting there was approximately an hour out of the city by scooter (note, scooters are only about 120b per day) but you could also tax a taxi or possibly a bus for about the same price. The ride itself was part of the attraction: sitting on the back of this little scooter, loaded up with my Macpac alpine hiking pack full of things like waterproof overtrousers and head torches (both of which = totally useless in Thailand) was heaps of fun. The warm wind is cooling to your skin as you ride along, and many of the locals smile and wave. We took a couple of wrong turns but eventually made it to this so called Grand Canyon and were both amazed by what we had found.

The canyon (50b entry, including a free cup of tea of coffee) was apparently a quarry at some point, and is now filled with beautiful blue water that appears clean and sparkling. I uploaded some photos to Facebook. Huge white stone cliffs tower high above the water, so depending on your appetite for adventure you can either take a walking track down to the waters edge for a leisurely swim, or jump straight in from either the low or high cliffs. We were feeling hot and a bit burned after half a day in the sun, so dumped our gear and promptly jumped from the 30m cliff. This is the 'low' level but is still higher than anything I have ever jumped off in NZ. The water is super deep so there was no chance of hitting the bottom, at least I don't think so.. we did hear rumours of someone dying here not long ago. We swam around a bit and met some nice people (everyone here is chatty and friendly). A French guy with a Thai girlfriend joined us on the floating bamboo platform that was conveniently placed in the middle of our giant swimming pool.

We watched a few brave lads jump from the 50m clifftop and I gathered the courage to do it too, with a new friend named Rob from the Netherlands. We were going to jump together (two Robs) but even after several people counted me down, I chickened out and so he went alone. It was darned high.. and the thought of hitting the bottom or slipping and not clearing the small lip at the bottom of the cliff worried me. In the end I did it and the free fall felt like forever! I have not been skydiving and frankly am not that keen on the idea, but perhaps there is some similarity. It was about 2-3 seconds in the air and then you hit the water with a huge splash. I made a rookie error which was to have my arms out flapping like a bird, and when I hit the water it apparently made a giant slapping noise as my outstretched arms got a spanking.

The rest of the day involved hours of chatting, then the inevitable beers and nightmarket that followed. The crew were at the hostel already warming up when I got back and we ended up having a nice dinner, but then I called it in early as I was beat.

The lesson here, is that good things can happen as long as you have a postiive attitide and are willing to go with the flow. Joy and I may never see each other again, but we both have amazing memories of a fun 48 hours spent in Chiang Mai, an experience I would never have had if I had caught the bus to caving.

The next blog will cover off an awesome motorbike ride I did to Chiang Dau, as I spend a few days off my Stray Bus exploring Chiang Mai!

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Day 2: Bangkok and Ayutthaya with Stray Asia

I arrived to my room late last night by a young chap who really didn't have much to say! He collected me from the airport then we drove in silence (including radio) in a very modern car, down a very modern motorway, past the biggest billboards I have ever seen! Quite an unexpected start to the trip.

I got dropped off to the Bhiman Inn, not far frtom the Chao Phraya River. I promotly dump my gear into my room, then set off to see some of the nearby sites (without getting to far away so as to not find my way home!). 

It is my first time in this part of the world and apart from a rudimentary tourist map I have absolutely no bearings as to where I am in relation to my hotel, so I stick to making left hand turns so as to end up back eventually, one way or another. I stroll through what is clearly the tourist area and am immediately taken back to Tamel in Kathmandu. I wonder what condition it must be in after the earthquakes? There are street vendors, cheap trinkets, and I suppose famous-in-Thailand made to measure suits. Swap the suits for silk pasmiras and beads and you could easily be in any street of Nepal. The big difference between Nepal and Thailand, in my view (having been here for all of 12 hours by this point) is that it feels less chaotic. The street vendors didn't push quite as hard, there wasn't 100 taxi cabs driving at break neck speed amongst the pedestrians, and the streets are at least paved.

I walk down past the bars and cafes and am surprised by the quiet vibe in the air.. I am informed it is 'off season' and thats is why not many people are around. I also learn it is a public holiday, meaning no drinking! It feels safe, and non pressured. Touists (mostly european looking, perhaps from the US and Australia predominantly based on accents I pickup) are in loose fitting singlets, sarongs, shorts and thongs/jandels. I look a spot out f place in my jeans, hiking bookts and marino jersey..  I can be forgiven hopefully, asa I have just arrived from NZ winter!

I retire to my comfortable enough room (single bed, clean, fridge, noisy air conditioning) and have a broken sticky sleep, waking several times for water and eventually giving up around 5am.

Stray Asia shop:

My first experience of the Stray Crew is one of fun! The team are friendly and welcoming, and the store is bright and light. I mistakingly got a cab to the store, which cost 100b when it should have cost about 10.. I need to figure the pricing out asap! They had a good laugh, which would become a recurring theme as I aim to lose practically every important item I have with me during this trip.

We get shown where we are going on a big map, meet one-another (2 x Brit, 1 x Norwegian, and me). I am the oldie on board, but not by too much. On the comfortable bus we have more of a chat with our guide Chao who gave us lots of useful info. He used to be an adventure guide so I am really excited about the possibilities here in regards to hiking, rock climbing, rafting and kayaking. I want to ensure that the long stretches aboard this bus or other vehicles are offset with some physical excursion! He informs me that guides are different to drivers.. he laughs and says “you don’t want a driver looking over his shoulder talking to the guests all the time!”. True that.

Our first point of call is to be the world heritage site Ayutthaya which I am informed has some incredible ruins and things to see. Then we will board our overnight train towards Chaing mai.

Overall so far the experience is fun and Thailand reminds me of the Pacific Islands in many respects. Built up towns when on the mainland, and more untouched nature the further out you go. The people are surprising I must admit: their grasp of English is really poor even in the tourist operations, and even basic requests of store staff (where can I get water purifyers? where can I buy a universal wall socket for my power plug?) fall on deaf ears with blank expressions. I have made a couple of uncharacteristic mistakes on this trip so far, one is to not bring a probiotic (which worked amazingly well to keep my tummy happy in Nepal, when almost all the rest of my group got a bug of some sort) and secondly to rely on buying water purification tablets here instead of bringing them. I really object to buying bottled water every day and think the bottles are doing real harm to the environment.. alas, if it's the environment vs. me on a toilet for a fortnight, I think I know what i have to do. Finding these two things has proven to be very difficult.

Ayutthaya:

Ayutthaya is quite an amazing place, about 1.5 hours drive from Bangkok in our Stray bus. It was once the capital of Thailand until it was sacked at some point around the 1700's. In the 1950's it was rediscovered and in the 1990s it was made a world heritage site and sort of rebuilt into the condition it is now in. I have uploaded tonnes of photos to the Got To Get Out facebook page. The whole township is dotted with remnants of the past, and you certainly get an idea of the magnificence of the place even by what is left behind. The ruins appear to be left mostly as they were found, though in places you can see they have reconstructed parts to give the impression of the scale and shape of some of the pillars and monuments. The most impressive of all is the giant golden Buddah sitting inside a huge restored temple, with tapestries and golden relics surrounding it. Quite an impressive site.

My small group of four opted to do our tour on foot rather than the myriad other paid options available to us, such as tuk-tuk, taxi, motorbike, elephant or rented bicycle.  This was great excercise and also meant you really experienced the city - although we all came away with a sunburn afterwards and were very ready for our beer at the Good Luck tavern where we were were based for the day. We didn't actually stay the night here, but our bags lived in the lobby all day and we ate there and were even invited to shower. Prices are cheap in places like this, 50b for a limitless hot shower, 20b to charge your phone, and 80b for a large ice cold beer. Perfect!

Overnight Train to Chang Mai:

Our next adventure was to board the overnight train to Chang Mai. This involved a large group of tourists (hundreds) boarding simultaneously and rapidly stowing their gear into the under-bed lockers before getting straight into your bunk. Not a lot of conversing went on as I had expected (there's always one lot of hyped up young people yahooing or playing cards into the night?) but not on this trip - it was lights out as soon as everyone hit the bunk, and no-one stirred for the next 13 hours. Except me, because my body clock still told me 3am was 8am NZ time! This only slightly disappointing bit of the train ride was that there were all sorts of travellers onboard I would loved to have met, but this was near impossible save for an impromptu hushed chat outside the toilet as everyone was put into their own little bed with the curtains pulled.

Toilets by the way, are pretty terrible on this train.. be prepared for a squat, with no paper supplied, on a bumping rolling train! No easy task for number twos. Number ones for a guy = easy.   The trip was uneventful. I should have brought more food with me would be my only comment. The travel hack here is to leave your own carriage and sit in the food carriage for breakfast. I was surprised that most people say in their bunk the whole trip and so the food carriage is mostly empty, comfortable, and has big windows so you can see where you are and even watch the sun coming up (if you are up early like me). 

Chang Mai:

My next blog (when written!) will cover my exciting experiences in Chang Mai, inluding an amazing half day hike, a fun hostel, great food, and then partying with a range of awesome foreigners!

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Got To Get Out does South East Asia!

My name is Robert Bruce and I am the founder of this adventure / outdoors group called Got To Get Out. Got To Get Out is all about encouraging people to see the world, make new friends, and be active! Over the next couple of weeks I am going to share my experiences of 'getting out', off the beaten track around South East Asia, all thanks to Stray Asia. Stray Asia is the 'hop on hop off' bus company that allows travellers the flexibility of visiting countries like New Zealand, Thailand, Laos, Myanmar, Cambodia and others in their own time. The whole idea of the company is that if you like the look of a place, you jump off the bus and take a look around - then wait for the next one in a few days before moving onto the next location.

I am in the very fortunate position of having an audience of a few thousand followers (and growing) on our Facebook page to share experiences with, and the responsibility of giving Got To Get Out fans useful tips and inspiration about 'getting out' is one I take seriously! As background, In late 2014 I had somewhat of a life transformation which resulted in me deciding that being active and healthy was more important than sitting at a computer desk all day eating high calorie foods and dying a slow corporate death. After losing close to 30kg over 5 months by changing my diet and by getting active, I then hiked to Everest Base Camp in the Himalayas in the middle of their winter (January). The experience gave me real clarity of thought as I trekked for 15 days (8 hours a day of climbing) and I decided I wanted to encourage others to get off the couch and into the outdoors too. So i started sharing my stories via the GTGO facebook page, and here we are. 

Got To Get Out has now arranged hikes and treks all around New Zealand, catering for hundreds of people and inspiring many others through our interesting content. We have been caving, kayaking, mountain biking, paddle boarding, and completed several overnight treks such as The Pinnacles Corormandel and Tongiraro Crossing with groups of people ranging up to 35 on a trip.

Got To Get Out often books Stray NZ buses for our excursions around NZ, and the team at Stray Asia have very kindly invited me to check out their service around Thailand and through Laos (called the Tom Yum trip) so that our followers get to learn about this interesting part of the world too. For more information or to book your own trip, simply go to www.straytravel.asia

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