We may get what we want after going through challenges or not get what we want due to challenges. At this point in my life, I expect to be faced by challenges daily mainly because I don't expect everyone to like me case in point my father.
He dislikes the fact that I visit my uncle's house every weekend.
I go swimming in my uncle's pool and afterwards I stay one or two nights. My uncle doesn't mind me staying at his place but my dad gets so jealous and angry.
I am faced with an issue of gastritis and I need to find ways of exercising. My uncle's swimming pool is at my disposal and I enjoy making use of it. But I have failed to understand my dad's choice to forbid me from going to my uncle's place.
The way I have handled this is by continuing to go to my uncle's place because I can't stop doing what I love over my father's childish tantrums.
I have learned that I don't have to listen to what the naysayers have to say but I should trust my gut instead because I am wise and I don't wish harm on other people.
I respect people's boundaries but my father has crossed the line by thinking he could break up the relationship between me and my uncle.