Grades, and the importance of interacting with your professors
As I know a lot of folks on Tumblr are students at one level or another, as a professor, I thought I'd offer this observation:
Interact with your professors. Sure, in large cattle-call classes it can be hard. And some profs don't give AF. But most do. I'd like to know a little more about my students. Genuinely. That helps me help you.
As I've aged, and as college has shifted too, I've become much more sanguine about grades. I know many of my students struggle with multiple demands, and a large number here at UNO are first-gen students. I want to help you out. *I* was a first-gen student once upon a time. I get it. Imposter syndrome is real, although back then, I had no name for it besides a creeping sense that I didn't belong.
Anyway, when grade time rolls around, I am inclined to grant grace: a point, even two, if I know the student made a concerted effort--good attendance, expressed interest, talked to me about how to take better notes, etc. I want you to succeed. And I know college is hella expensive, so repeating a class is an added expense.
That said, things that annoy me: the Dude-Bros who think they can sweet-talk/smarm me into raising their grade Because They Deserve It. You just made sure you get exactly the grade you earned, dude. Also, students who come up to me at semester end, having ignored all extra-credit options to ask if there is "something they can do" to raise their grade. Um, no. You missed your chance. And if you think you can have AI write you a neat little paper that I have to take extra time to grade to raise your final? Keep dreamin', hon. I'm a bitch like that. I don't do extra work because you didn't do any earlier.
But I do make an effort to divide the sheep from the goats. And the best way to be sure you're among the sheep it to interact with me earlier. Let your professors know you're genuinely trying. And if you're struggling with RL issues, tell us. Early. Not after you've failed an exam. I know some students "don't want to be a bother," but letting us know after looks like an excuse.
Alerting us early in the semester lets us See You Real. You are not a stray cat. Don't hide your struggles. That said, One More Dead Grandmother is a joke among profs as an excuse to get out of a test students didn't study for. So if you really did lose your beloved granny and are heartbroken, let us know early if she's sick. I don't want to be a callous bitch if you're genuinely grieving. But I will be skeptical if it seems "convenient."
Here's the deal: I'm human and so are you. I'd like to grant you human grace. But there are also deadbeats looking to take advantage and I've been teaching 30+ years. I've pretty much heard it all. So give me a reason to (again) See You Real.
Finally, ALWAYS, always, check the due dates for everything, and if you suspect you might have some sort of conflict, talk to your professors in the first few weeks...not five days before you're absent. Also, be aware, if your "conflict" is personal: a friend's wedding, family vacation, etc., that may not be excused. But the sooner you let us know, the more likely it could be (with documentation). Alas, your word is not good enough these days. Be prepared to show us.