1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Looking into someone’s eyes when they tell me how they feel, but mostly if they’re complimenting me. Neither are really that difficult though.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
My mom refuses to use they/them pronouns when referring to me. Yep, I still feel like screaming.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
My best friend/boyfriend Tyler. I’d tell him I love him and ask him to let the people I care about know that I loved them too.
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I would probably tell my closest friends immediately and once we were done crying (after two weeks maybe) I’d tell everyone else. I’d try to do what I could to stay happy, but I would definitely be scared and sad.
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
Love because it’s hard to love someone without some sort of underlying trust.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
Yes, why should an innocent living thing die when I can save it, regardless of my job.
7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
What if it’s the same person? I guess that decides it then.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
This has happened to me more than once (somehow). I’ve always been fine with still being friends. You shouldn’t have to force your own feelings to change or lose a friend because of them. I wouldn’t necessarily date them unless I had similar feelings.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
No. My great grandmother lived a full life and it was her time to go.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
No. Love and sex should be considered separately.
12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
If I was in an at least somewhat stable financial position, sure. I wouldn’t want to bankrupt myself, but I don’t want to see anyone I know going bankrupt when I could help them.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
My boyfriend. I told him how great he makes me feel and all that soppy shit.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Telling someone I don’t love them back, for sure.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
Honestly my phone because it keeps me connected with so many important things and people in my life.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
My friend was being really adorable and funny.
17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
Yelling at my sister because she looks up to me so much and I don’t want her to follow that example.
18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
Absolutely. I wouldn’t let anyone die if I had the power to save them.
19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
I would have to let go of my grandmother simply because she’s already lived a full life and a newborn baby still has a life full of potential to live.
20. Are you old fashioned?
Not really, I’m all about reshaping society for the newer generations. I like a few old fashioned manners and some media, but that’s about it.
21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
I painted my sister’s nails to look like space.
22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love and a broken heart. It makes you a stronger person and would hopefully be fun while it lasted.
23. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
To be healthy and the world to be equal and a little more fair