The more I delve into the world of polyamory, the more I am unfortunately exposed to toxic monogamous culture and monogamous people negatively inserting themselves into our spaces.
For example, I'll go watch a nice video on polyamory, scroll to the comments, and see the majority being very negatively judgemental, unkind, and close-minded. It's very disheartening to me.
Polyamorous people do happily exist. Polyamory is not full of cheating and drama. Polyamory is just another way to love, and that is just as valid as monogamy.