Need help with a synastry overlay question!
Partner and I have two houses that predominantly takeover the overlays. The majority of their personal planets all hit my 1st house, but the majority of my personal planets all hit their 12th house! The big planets in question here are sun, moon, mercury, AND venus 😱!
How would something like this play out? With what I’ve read on first house and twelfth house overlays, the first house always seems so open and responsive, light and easy, but the twelve house comes across as secretive, confusing, and challenging. I always see conflicting information - such as, “the first house brings trust to the relationship” and then “the 12th house brings distrust to the relationship.” Is the relationship essentially just a whirlwind of contradictions?
How can those two opposing energies work out in a relationship? I’d love to hear what people think.