i sort of dislike how no one in the system community talks about still going through trauma even after finding out you’re a system.
of course i don’t want people to overshare to the point of putting themselves in danger. but im still in an abusive household. i know people who are still in abusive households. the system community always talks about splitting from “minor” things or triggers, but not new trauma or repetitive trauma.
i’m glad some people are doing and functioning better than they were as a child. but don’t forget the rest of us. we’re still here too.
edit: stop fucking venting on this post.












