You have no job - you are judged. You work - you somehow don't have DID.
You do something on your own - you are capable in everything and you fake your triggers. You can't - you fake your trauma for attention and are lazy.
You are a persecutor - you are seen as a faker or an evil person. You don't have one - you don't fit the criteria anymore.
You have a little - you are only regressing. All your alters are adults - but every system has a little.
Your protector is a big muscle man - stereotypical. Your protector is a kiddo - you're weird and unrealistic.
You say something funny - you romanticise a disorder. You are negative - why are you traumadumping everybody?
They always fucking find a reason. Stop trying to please people as it's impossible and not worth it. Not everybody with the same illness will be able to do the same thing as another which doesn't mean they aren't ill. Don't listen to bullies. They have a right to be suspicious but in a nice way - by blocking or unfollowing you. You should act the way you can and want. Not try to fit any boxes to be valid in eyes of literal strangers who aren't specialists and are illogical to that. They don't have same experiences, they don't live your life, they don't pay your bills. Fuck 'em!