E, K, L, Q, R! i'm just choosing letters at random tbh
I chose an OC at random… (it’s ilya)
E = Effort(How much effort do they put into a relationship?)
It depends entirely on her moods. Ilya has a very obsessive personality, which can sometimes be mistaken for love in her own mind and especially in the minds of others. Usually her whirlwind relationships are just a passing fascination of being with someone new and learning all she can about them than actual real feelings. When the obsession fades, so does all the effort put into the relationship… Which was exactly how she ended up breaking the heart of Piper Wright. In the off chance she actually fell for someone, she would do all she can to keep them safe and happy and would devote herself completely; however, at the first sign of REALIZING she is actually in love, she runs. She is afraid of replacing the thought of Nataniel in her mind, and refuses to allow herself to grow that close to another person again.
K = Kiss(Are they a good kisser? Do they like to kiss? How often do they try to kiss you?)She definitely is a great kisser, from years of practice with all of her various boyfriends. Or girlfriends. Or just drunken acquaintances. Or her best friend, or her future husband. She loves to kiss, and enjoyed doing it very often. Those she is with just need to get used to probably having their face kissed several hundred times a day. (She also really loves being the one to teach someone how to kiss, or to be their first kiss, like she was to Birdie)
L = Love(When do they say they love you? How often do they say it? Do they prefer to say or show it?)Ilya tells those around her and those she befriends that she loves them easily and casually, but it is only when she actually feels it that it becomes much harder for her. Having lost just about everyone who mattered to her in her life, she believes that if she truly admits that she loves someone they are doomed to disappear forever. When she actually falls in love now, she runs away, avoids her feelings, and tries to forget them. It’s better for them to be alone without her than dead.
Q = Questions(Do they ask their s/o their opinion on things? Do they share theirs?)She always is curious about others and interested in learning about all different personality types. This was a hobby carried since before the war, when she carefully formulated her charismatic charm so she could always have someone around, wrapped around her finger. Now in the wasteland, it’s more that she just finds the stories of survival fascinating. She is always asking her close friends and lovers their opinions on just about everything, and if there is a story there she is bound to try to coax it out of them. As for sharing her own, you better believe she’s going to make her voice heard; especially if she is annoyed or bothered by something.
R = Random(How spontaneous is their relationship? Do they do things on the spot or plan ahead?)She was never one for planning, she mostly left that up to Nati. Most of what she does is spontaneous and emotion driven, and even more so when it comes to relationships.