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If you want to stand up for transgender Canadians, then there's a petition to ask the federal government to repeal the acts signed into law that restrict transgender medical care for transgender youth:
You need only be a resident of Canada, not a citizen to sign. Please help us give transgender youth a fighting chance. Their medical care decisions should be between the handling physician and family only. This isn't a matter for politicians to decide.
Mirror on the wall ❤️🩹🥰
This is a test to see if my account is still shadow-banned on Tumblr. If you've seen this by:
It popping up on your private dashboard (because you follow me)
Seeing it in the basic algorithm feeds
Then please like this post so I can see the metrics.
If you've seen this by:
Going directly to my account
Got a link to this from another site/link/friend etc.
Someone else reblogging this post
Any other way
Don't like or interact! Last I checked, you couldn't search me or find my posts unless someone else reblogged it, you went directly to my page, or you got a direct link to the post.
I want to know if I'm still left unsearchable/discoverable.
If I'm back to being searchable/discoverable, a crap ton of you should see this! Which means yaaaay! I might start using this account again!
Okay, look, I don't know what trans person out there needs to hear this, but you need to be kinder to yourself.
You can be unhappy with your appearance, clothing options, style, etc. I'm not going to deny you that, I'm there with you. What I mean is you're not a horrible person for making mistakes, getting things wrong, making stupid choices or even bad ones; you're learning. You should remember the reasons why you'll make better choices in the future, take better actions, learn new things, create better habits, etc, but you shouldn't let your failings beat you endlessly over the head. You shouldn't constantly put yourself down because you don't think you deserve kindness, complements, or even praise. The fun thing about 'deserving' nice things, is you often don't get to decide what good things you do deserve, especially when the kindness is coming from friends, because that's how they're showing they appreciate you.
Your worst critic isn't giving you the "real take" on who you are, they're highlighting the worst without comparing any of who you are with your best. That worst critic is you. Learn to tell yourself to shut the hell up, and accept the kindness, complements, and care others show you.
The simplest way to put it is: You need to be kinder to yourself, and ditch the self-depreciating internal and external commentary and jokes. It's not helping you, it's tearing you down. It's self-destructive. Focus on building yourself up. You and everyone else around you will appreciate that much more. And if you don't know where to start, then my suggestion is to find a gender affirming therapist. Get help; you deserve it. Not because you're broken, but because you deserve the upgrade, the improvement.
It's something I'm doing now myself. It's something that's making me feel better about a lot of things.
How is the pharmacist doing, did he immigrate?
Yes! He was approved a year ago or so I found out! I'm very happy for him.
A reminder: If you're transphobic towards me (be it on social media, youtube, or twitch); I take one more step towards being a girly-girl/trans girl stereotype. Since apparently some of you can't help yourselves/didn't believe me, the category on my Throne has been made, and an item added.
Next will be a pink pleated skirt. After that it'll be white thigh-highs. Then some sort of pink or white cropped top, then heels, then cat ears, then ... a tail. You can let me live my life in peace, you can ignore me. Or you can keep trying to be a jerk and I can become the person you hate most. To the rest of you lovely and nice people. If you ever care to make a transphobes day worse, let me know what you think I should add. I've already got a number of skirts and thigh-highs on throne that are more down the goth route but I'm open to suggestions.
To everyone who commented that my wardrobe of dark clothing, interest in classical music/jazz and dark magic themed novels was a "phase"? Well, I have come to a realization:
It wasn't a cry for help.
It wasn't depression.
It was, and always had been about joy.
And ... I'm bringing it back.
I was previously scared to try anything out of the norm, but the 7 year old me admired the weird adults with strange hobbies. I wanted to grow up into that.
And it's time I started to do that. I don't want to be a boring, sanitized, cookie-cutter adult. I want to be weird.
I want to be fun.
Watch (my cat) is in the hospital. She developed a sudden wobble at dinner time and wouldn't eat. She's been left over-night for observation and testing. The cost of all this can cost up to $2700. I can't really afford this so any help is appreciated. Link below for donation:
Become a supporter of Tali (Sidekick)🇨🇦🏳️⚧️ today!
Watch means the world to me despite my allergy towards her. I don't like asking for help like this, I normally just have Ko-Fi as an optional way for others to support me, but I could really use the help here.
