this may be an unpopular opinion on this app but there's nothing I despise more than "noncon". like wdym were cosplaying rape as a way to get in a sexual mood π I may not get it cuz I'm a virgin ooc but I genuinely can't get it through my head how people can take something that is like- one of the most traumatic things a person no matter what age, gender, sexuality, color etc. can experience and call it a "kink". I've also never been the one for kink shaming but I genuinely don't get the concept of it βΉοΈ
also the "safe word" thing, like idk but the thought of ignoring the words "no", "stop", "don't" and etc. cuz your partner didn't say the safe word "applebottom jeans" or wtv is so weird to me. like people ACTUALLY have to explain to others that "no" means "NO" and yet there are people over here taking "no" as "keep going" and "kfc spicy chicken bucket" as "stop"??
(lwk if you are both fully grown, consenting adults YOU DO YOU but I needed to tell someone this and what better place to complain about my no's in smut fanfics than the mother of smut fanfics itself)
(also its 5:35 in the morning and I'm bored so I might write smt since I have a good handful of requests :P)