What Korean men think of Western girls.
(Found this article on a website)
“It has come to my attention that a lot of girls have insecurities when it comes to going to Korea and interacting with men there. I’m going to share some of my experiences in hopes of easing your concerns.
First of all, I am 174cm aka: 5′9″. I am normal body type. I have more fat then I would like but that is neither here nor there. I am tall compared to most Korean girls but the men tend to be either my height or significantly taller. I’m talking over 6′0″ and it’s not an uncommon thing either. I actually find most Korean men to be looking for taller girls. They are so fascinated by the idea that they don’t have to bend down like crazy to hold your hand or kiss you. Most tell me right off the bat that they would prefer a tall girlfriend. (Don’t be discouraged though, smaller girls, you are perfect height for many men too.) If you want to go stalker on me, my instagram is: https://www.instagram.com/soyjac/
Remember, Korean beauty standards are different than others. Now if you are used to Western guys, you’re probably expecting men to say things like “you’re so hot”. Korean guys tend to be a bit more creative. I have heard the most uncommon things as explanations for why a guy is hitting on me such as:
1. “Your eyes are so big/round! Pretty!” 2. “You are so cute when you speak Korean!” 3. “Your face/head is so small!” 4. “Your skin is so pale like a doll!”
1. How to talk to Korean guys in the street? Simple, ask for directions. A lot of Koreans have basic English capabilities. It is even better if you speak Korean. They feel more comfortable and are more likely to chat with you if they know you can understand them. Go up to someone. Excuse yourself and ask for directions. Koreans are really helpful people. Often when I ask for help, the person will actually walk me to my destination. (I’ve even had someone walk over 20 minutes with me just to show me how to get there.)
If you want a different way, this also happens a lot:
K-dude: (sitting alone or with friends) Me: (walks by) K-dude: (in English) “WOW!”
So if you wanted to, you could talk to these guys but I don’t recommend it.
2. How to talk to Korean guys in the club? This is even easier. While it is somewhat frowned upon to talk to strangers usually, this rule goes out the window at night at a bar. Koreans will go to bars that are mostly foreigner hangouts with the purpose of talking to/picking up a foreigner. Most often, they will approach you first. Most common scenario is as follows:
K-dude: (smiles at me as I walk by) K-dude: (walks by me, smiles again) Me: (smiles back) K-dude: “Hi! Where are you from?!”
It’s really as easy as that. Some variations of their first sentence tend to happen based on which language I answer them in. Often they will ask “should we drink alcohol together?” this is an open invitation to spend more time with them and get to know them better. Keep in mind that said guy will probably try to kiss you/take you home at the end of the night. I have had a man walk straight up to me and say “I would like to have sex with you.” That was his introduction. Naturally he left alone after meeting my horrified expression, but men like this do exist here. Moral of the story… you are you. You are unique. You are beautiful. Men will be men and no matter where you go in the world, someone will appreciate your wonderful self. So wear whatever makes you happy and feel confident and get out there and meet some people!
xx”