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bisexuality = (root: bi. origin: Latin, meaning 2, highlighting duality) attraction to two binary genders.

pansexual = (root: pan. origin: Greek, meaning all) attraction to all genders/placements on the gender spectrum.

bisexual ≠ pansexual

there is a misconception that pansexuality is transphobic. pansexuality is not rejecting the idea that trans males are not males, nor that trans women are not binary women. you can be trans and binary, of course. what pansexuality is is inclusive of non-binary people, whereas  bisexuality does not include people outside the binary.

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first day of college and i never thought i would live to see the day i graduated from middle school!

mental health improves, even when it feels so severe and debilitating that it seems it won't. you can do this! if i did, you can, too!

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late night thoughts:

can masturbation cure a broken heart if the root of human connection is merely attraction and pheromones?

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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT

if you’re queer respond with how you take your coffee

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i’ve compiled a list of my favourite ways to stim when i’m anxious or dissociating. feel free to reblog and add yours :o)

touch:

- slime (try different textures: soft, crunchy)

- tangle (toy which you can bend around in your hands, it feels so nice)

- hand cream/lotion

- playing with your hair

- fuzzy socks

- wearing multiple rings so you can click them, feel how cold they are, etc

- holding ice

- petting a dog/cat/animal

- giving or receiving a hug

- fidget spinners (yes, i said it)

- hand flapping (so long as it’s not disruptive)

- breathing calmly

- go outside and feel the cold wind/hot air on your skin

taste:

- strong mint gum

- small lollipops

- sour candy

- a favourite food

smell:

- hand cream/lotion

- rubbing alcohol (you can carry around mini portable alcohol pads)

- a favourite perfume (strong or soft)

- hand sanitizer

- comforting candles/incense

hear:

- music

- hum to yourself

- focus on the different sounds around you and try to tell them apart

- go somewhere silent

- tap your toes on the floor

- drum to the beat of a song, or create your own rhythms